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Topic: when he wants to keep dating others
RKISIT's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:04 PM

You have only known him for a week, you two are not in a relationship, i don't see this as playing games!
you are very wise. this will be my only post on this threaddrinker

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:11 PM
Edited by Jill298 on Fri 07/17/09 06:15 PM
If it were me... I'd keep talking to others too. He can't be the ONLY one you will have chemistry with. You have every right to date or talk to whoever you want as long as you're not in a commited relationship. And make sure he's aware you're still out there talking to others too.
I think you're really jumping the gun on this. Let things flow. Talk to him. Talk to other people. Go out with friends. Get a hobby. Have a life and live it. If he becomes part of it, then great. If not, well then you didn't close all of your options off so you'll be in a better situation than you will be if you bet your whole heart on him. WHATEVER you do... don't be sitting by the phone waiting for him to call and wonder who he's with or any other such nonsense. A couple weeks... you're still supposed to be having FUN, not stressing.

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:13 PM


You have only known him for a week, you two are not in a relationship, i don't see this as playing games!
you are very wise. this will be my only post on this threaddrinker
agreed. I don't think he's playing games either. A couple of weeks? You're lucky he calls you back still. You keep pushing him, and I promise he won't.

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Fri 07/17/09 07:23 PM
thanks everyone. gave me a lot to think about. I do think he is being honest and not a player, just never felt this way about someone so fast and not sure what to do with the feelings I'm having.

I will definitely keep my profile up and keep seeing others while he is doing the same..... will let you know the end of the drama! LOl


PacificStar48's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:56 PM
Well might not be fair to the guy.

I have talked to a lot of people over the years about their relationships and it just doesn't take that long for a person to come to a conclusion as to wheather they are attracted and decideing wheather a relationship is worth pursueing or not. Doesn't mean jump into sex, living together, or running down the aisle; which I always advise against: but, if you see someone every day for a week and you you are hearing "I want you to give me your time/feelings when I want it but I am also going to date other women." I beleive that is the ultimate of selfishness and your que to say I deserve better.

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