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Topic: ?JERK?
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Fri 07/17/09 06:54 AM
{I have already formulated my opinion... just wondering what yours is!}

I got an email from someone on a different site. Explaining that he liked my profile and found im'ing or texting a better why to get to know people than emailing.

I explained to him that my preference was to email for a while before giving out my information. So, I asked a few questions... like work, what his grad degree was in and these questions (with his responses)...

What kind of relationship, if any, are you looking for?

never look just looking for friends
people who look are desperate

What kind of traits do you look for in a partner?

isnt something i can list
they differ from person to person
its a combo of them that makes a person feasible for me or not

and scared to give out some standard info huh
not a good sign at all


spock Oh well! Another one hits the dust! :laughing:

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Fri 07/17/09 06:57 AM
answers seemed ok , to me......being "scared" is being cautious ....why the problem...."bad sign" have him expound on why he thinks being safe is a bad sign....

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Fri 07/17/09 06:57 AM
OHHHHHHHHH WELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

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Fri 07/17/09 07:00 AM
I don't think those answers mean someone's a jerk. People ask me what type of guy I look for fairly often.. and I always say I don't have a type. As it actually does differ from person to person.

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Fri 07/17/09 07:00 AM

answers seemed ok , to me......being "scared" is being cautious ....why the problem...."bad sign" have him expound on why he thinks being safe is a bad sign....


I am not asking him... not worried about it.

I sent an email back to him that my cell number is my personal information and can choose who I give it to... and asked him if he has ever given his messenger id to a scammer and been put on a junk mail list!

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Fri 07/17/09 07:01 AM

I don't think those answers mean someone's a jerk. People ask me what type of guy I look for fairly often.. and I always say I don't have a type. As it actually does differ from person to person.


I wasn't worried about the type question... but his response that looking was desparate and that it's a bad sign that I didn't want to give him my cell # and Y id after one email.

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Fri 07/17/09 07:03 AM


I don't think those answers mean someone's a jerk. People ask me what type of guy I look for fairly often.. and I always say I don't have a type. As it actually does differ from person to person.


I wasn't worried about the type question... but his response that looking was desparate and that it's a bad sign that I didn't want to give him my cell # and Y id after one email.


Yeah, that part is pushy.

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Fri 07/17/09 07:05 AM



I don't think those answers mean someone's a jerk. People ask me what type of guy I look for fairly often.. and I always say I don't have a type. As it actually does differ from person to person.


I wasn't worried about the type question... but his response that looking was desparate and that it's a bad sign that I didn't want to give him my cell # and Y id after one email.


Yeah, that part is pushy.


Yep! And I don't deal well with pushy! laugh

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Fri 07/17/09 07:06 AM
:cry: ohwell laugh drinker
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNQRfBAzSzo

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Fri 07/17/09 07:08 AM


rofl

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Fri 07/17/09 07:09 AM
To vague, what is he afraid of or what is he hiding.
I'd say stay away, too.

tanyaann's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:11 AM

To vague, what is he afraid of or what is he hiding.
I'd say stay away, too.


smooched Thanks!

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:15 AM
Not seeking. So I don't have these problems.

tanyaann's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:19 AM

Not seeking. So I don't have these problems.


:tongue:

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Fri 07/17/09 07:21 AM

{I have already formulated my opinion... just wondering what yours is!}

I got an email from someone on a different site. Explaining that he liked my profile and found im'ing or texting a better why to get to know people than emailing.

I explained to him that my preference was to email for a while before giving out my information. So, I asked a few questions... like work, what his grad degree was in and these questions (with his responses)...

What kind of relationship, if any, are you looking for?

never look just looking for friends
people who look are desperate

What kind of traits do you look for in a partner?

isnt something i can list
they differ from person to person
its a combo of them that makes a person feasible for me or not

and scared to give out some standard info huh
not a good sign at all


spock Oh well! Another one hits the dust! :laughing:



Are you interviewing the guy for a job or just someone to chat with?

tanyaann's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:25 AM


{I have already formulated my opinion... just wondering what yours is!}

I got an email from someone on a different site. Explaining that he liked my profile and found im'ing or texting a better why to get to know people than emailing.

I explained to him that my preference was to email for a while before giving out my information. So, I asked a few questions... like work, what his grad degree was in and these questions (with his responses)...

What kind of relationship, if any, are you looking for?

never look just looking for friends
people who look are desperate

What kind of traits do you look for in a partner?

isnt something i can list
they differ from person to person
its a combo of them that makes a person feasible for me or not

and scared to give out some standard info huh
not a good sign at all


spock Oh well! Another one hits the dust! :laughing:



Are you interviewing the guy for a job or just someone to chat with?


Be in a relationship with me is a job! laugh

I ask a lot of questions, its just who I am... And I didn't even ask hard questions. I just asked basic get to know, get a feel for you questions because he had very little information on his profile; most of the questions I asked might be found on a profile!

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Fri 07/17/09 07:33 AM



{I have already formulated my opinion... just wondering what yours is!}

I got an email from someone on a different site. Explaining that he liked my profile and found im'ing or texting a better why to get to know people than emailing.

I explained to him that my preference was to email for a while before giving out my information. So, I asked a few questions... like work, what his grad degree was in and these questions (with his responses)...

What kind of relationship, if any, are you looking for?

never look just looking for friends
people who look are desperate

What kind of traits do you look for in a partner?

isnt something i can list
they differ from person to person
its a combo of them that makes a person feasible for me or not

and scared to give out some standard info huh
not a good sign at all


spock Oh well! Another one hits the dust! :laughing:



Are you interviewing the guy for a job or just someone to chat with?


Be in a relationship with me is a job! laugh

I ask a lot of questions, its just who I am... And I didn't even ask hard questions. I just asked basic get to know, get a feel for you questions because he had very little information on his profile; most of the questions I asked might be found on a profile!


Well then I'd say the guy failed the interview.

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Fri 07/17/09 08:43 AM
You go girl! Being safe and knowing who you are and who you are talking with are a must in these days. Good luck in your search and skip over the toads, your worth it!winking

tanyaann's photo
Fri 07/17/09 08:44 AM

You go girl! Being safe and knowing who you are and who you are talking with are a must in these days. Good luck in your search and skip over the toads, your worth it!winking


Thank you! flowers

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Fri 07/17/09 08:45 AM

To vague, what is he afraid of or what is he hiding.
I'd say stay away, too.


I agree with Sage.

Too evasive.


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