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Topic: Self Conscience
damnitscloudy Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11293	Sat 05/19/07 01:57 PM
Just wondering how many of ya'lls are self conscience all the time. Today I was walking by a pool and there were these really cute sun bathers hanging out. And I wanted to go swimming later but now I'm scared to go in my swimming trunks in case they might be there. Is that normal or am I just weird?

SheNerd Joined Sun 04/29/07 Posts: 6039	Sat 05/19/07 01:58 PM
I would consider that perfectly normal. The same thing has happened to me.

tantalizingtulip Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 11426	Sat 05/19/07 02:01 PM


CATBW56 Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 7224	Sat 05/19/07 02:02 PM
eh, that's normal. If you don't go, you could miss out on a really great time

rastah2007 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 17	Sat 05/19/07 02:02 PM
my son show it off if you got it ok

bibby7 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 1286	Sat 05/19/07 02:02 PM
Just go nude!! You will be the one attracting comments!!

damnitscloudy Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11293	Sat 05/19/07 02:06 PM
I don't want any comments, good or other wise lol. I just want them to go away so I won't feel so werid O_o

jeanc200358 Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 3183	Sat 05/19/07 02:07 PM
I get very uncomfortable when people stare at me. I always wonder if I've got toilet paper stuck to my shoe or something.

ChubbyCherubPoet Joined Fri 10/06/06 Posts: 23222	Sat 05/19/07 02:10 PM
aye I tend to be a bit(ok a lot) self conscious...I tend to stick to the background a lot

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Sat 05/19/07 02:14 PM
It sounds normal. I try to avoid people. Might explain why I am still alone

damnitscloudy Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11293	Sat 05/19/07 02:14 PM
I'm a background person myself! I'm like a cat, I want to be noticed when I'm GOOD AND READY. It doesn't help that my self image is that of a black bear with the head of a human O_o

damnitscloudy Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11293	Sat 05/19/07 02:14 PM
I'm a background person myself! I'm like a cat, I want to be noticed when I'm GOOD AND READY. It doesn't help that my self image is that of a black bear with the head of a human O_o

bibby7 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 1286	Sat 05/19/07 02:16 PM
If you don't want any comments...Why did you post this??

damnitscloudy Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11293	Sat 05/19/07 02:17 PM
Nooo, I ment I didn't want comments from people at the pool lol

jeanc200358 Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 3183	Sat 05/19/07 02:17 PM
Tell ya what ya do. If you're feeling self-conscious, post a pic of yourself in a bikini. Some people will love it and others, well, it'll PISS the hell outta them!! But it does wonders for your ego, either way! Snorrrrkkkk!!!

bibby7 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 1286	Sat 05/19/07 02:17 PM
Please, don't be wasting my time..Unlike you, my time is limited!

brokenheart74 Joined Mon 04/09/07 Posts: 779	Sat 05/19/07 02:18 PM
It is very normal, I hate going to the pool when all the skinny girls are there in their bikinis. Makes me want to turn around and run sometimes-LOL! You are a cute guy; you have nothing to worry about.

bibby7 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 1286	Sat 05/19/07 02:19 PM
Then, Go naked, as I suggested!..They will be so busy, they won't point you out!

sweetklp40 Joined Tue 01/23/07 Posts: 4498	Sat 05/19/07 02:20 PM
when theres hot men hangin at a pool..im there!! nothin is going to stop me..

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sat 05/19/07 02:22 PM
Take the plunge away from shyness kiddo! If they don't like you- than they are not worth knowing. But if you don't get out there than- you will never know... Just don't wear cartoon shorts though