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Topic: gentlemen.....out of curiosity...
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Thu 07/16/09 04:05 PM
Edited by pokerface1200 on Thu 07/16/09 04:07 PM
when it comes to your woman or women are you a conformist (willing to do anything to please her and keep her happy) or a non-conformist (love her but she must love you for all the things youre not willing to change at the same time)?

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Thu 07/16/09 04:12 PM

when it comes to your wman or women are you a conformist (will do anything to please her and keep her happy) or a non-conformist (love her but she must love me for all the things im not willing to change)?



Do you think this is an either/or question? It is not.

It is unfair and unrealistic to expect someone to change to make someone else happy. It is not necessary for someone to love all your peccadilloes and quirks. They do need to tolerate them and love the traits that are appealing to them.

adj4u's photo
Thu 07/16/09 04:14 PM
a relationship is give and take

but one thing i will not give up is my integrity

i take integrity very serious and it is a must have

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Thu 07/16/09 04:14 PM
I am who I am and cannot be anything else, you either love me for who I am or go look somewhere else for who you wish I was.

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 07/16/09 04:15 PM
What woman? Which woman? Where woman?

vortecpowered's photo
Thu 07/16/09 04:18 PM
there are certain things about me that will never change and i don't feel like being with someone who insists on trying to change them.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 07/16/09 04:22 PM
Edited by wannacuddlewthme on Thu 07/16/09 04:23 PM
I do what she wants .when she wants

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Thu 07/16/09 04:26 PM

when it comes to your woman or women are you a conformist (willing to do anything to please her and keep her happy) or a non-conformist (love her but she must love you for all the things youre not willing to change at the same time)?


The question strikes me as a little nebulous, but....

While I would consider myself fairly flexible in some ways, there are just a handful of things I will not change about myself, things I will not do, for anyone.


AndyBgood's photo
Thu 07/16/09 04:38 PM

when it comes to your woman or women are you a conformist (willing to do anything to please her and keep her happy) or a non-conformist (love her but she must love you for all the things youre not willing to change at the same time)?



It is a blend. There are things I will bend on and others I will not. It all depends. A real suck up becomes a Jehova's Witness just to get the girl if she is one. Also depends on if you are an alpha male or a beta male. Alpha's are not much on bending or submission.

TxsSun's photo
Thu 07/16/09 04:46 PM
I can't believe I am the only woman posting in here but here goes.

NO ONE should change for anyone. Where did this question arise from anyway?

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/16/09 04:56 PM
F**k that B!tch, do as i say or hit the bricks!

lspen43's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:03 PM

F**k that B!tch, do as i say or hit the bricks!


You sure do like to "stir the soup"devil

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:03 PM

F**k that B!tch, do as i say or hit the bricks!
You drunk

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:04 PM


F**k that B!tch, do as i say or hit the bricks!
You drunk




Negative

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:05 PM



F**k that B!tch, do as i say or hit the bricks!
You drunk




Negative
Well.. **** her thenrofl

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:05 PM
B!tch betta have my honey

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:06 PM




F**k that B!tch, do as i say or hit the bricks!
You drunk




Negative
Well.. **** her thenrofl





laugh laugh laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:07 PM

when it comes to your woman or women are you a conformist (willing to do anything to please her and keep her happy) or a non-conformist (love her but she must love you for all the things youre not willing to change at the same time)?



:smile: If the woman is happy then the relationship is happy.:smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 05:08 PM

F**k that B!tch, do as i say or hit the bricks!
shocked

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Thu 07/16/09 05:08 PM


when it comes to your woman or women are you a conformist (willing to do anything to please her and keep her happy) or a non-conformist (love her but she must love you for all the things youre not willing to change at the same time)?



:smile: If the woman is happy then the relationship is happy.:smile:
flowerforyou correctflowerforyou

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