So I'm gonna make this short and sweet, unlike my past threads. Here t'is: Do you find yourself attracting the complete opposite of who you want to attract? In looks, not personality, cuz that's a whole deeper ball of worms there, and I wanna keep this simple. If so, why do you think you attract the entirely opposite physicality than those you are attracted to?

Well since I'm so cute and little with gigantic(never mind) the men who are always attracted to me were big hairy gorilla types. Giant men

I've recently met a man who is normal. Physicaly normal (as well as mentaly!)

And I like this sooooooo much better!

Yeah, I'm so hawt I just can't unnerstand why I am attracted to ugly women.

I think some of these people just look at your pic. and don't bother to read your profile. JMO

i dont read to much into this either way but i only get profile perved by women over 35

I'll tell you why. With a handsome man, I get shy and, I have a hard time approaching him. With man I'm not attracted to, it's easier for me to talk to them. In my talking to them, they think I like them. I don't. It's just easier because I'm............not afraid of rejection.

Of course they do

That's why I completely changed mine and took out almost everything serious!
( in responce to digger)

Maybe you should give that 'easier to talk to' guy a chance.

But to the OP, if you're an attractive woman, you'll attract every man in range. At least on mingle you can filter through them more quickly.

I am to sexy for this thread...

Bingo. At least, for when I actually TALK to THEM. But it happens the other way around too. Weird.



Thank you.

Course, the main issue on here is DISTANCE. Which I'm sure everyone has had to deal with at least once here.

I cannot control who is attracted to me (if any) I can only control who I am attracted to.

Never expect more than you can offer

I prefer an older, rugged type of guy. More often than not, I attract younger, baby face types. I think it is because I look a lot younger than I am.

To me it's both distance and the lack of depth.

You only get a couple dimensions of a person on here. You can see what they present, but not what they don't. And, regardless of how forthcoming and honest they are, you can't see other traits that are critical in being attracted. You can't see how they hold themselves, how they interact in real life with you and other people. You can't see if they're nice to the waitress or how they react in traffic. You can't see the thousands of things that help to define who they are.

Time and time again I see people on here become infatuated with each other, then meet and it all falls apart.

But there are a few success stories, so I know that it can happen.

I'm the opposite, and I get "HOW old are you?" all the time.

Maybe we should meet up and attract some guys for each-other.



And that is exactly WHY distance is an issue. I couldn't have put it better!

I ATTRACT MOSQUITOES