Topic: Why can't I find someone?
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Thu 07/16/09 07:10 AM
okay now I am frustrated

do I really have to spell everything out?

And at the end of what I say tell you guys how I feel???

That seems silly

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No I am not offended
No I am not upset

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Honestly this is getting way out of hand and stupid
I asked you guys to rate my profile NOT MY PERSONALITY

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Thu 07/16/09 07:11 AM
But if you guys really recommend I preface everything I say with a "warning" I will.....

...and if you want me to answer all of my questions and reply to all of my statements so you can understand what I mean.......I will


WHatever


That is not the point of the thread!

I want to know what I do to CHANGE MY PROFILE to attract more people who are LIKE ME

snarkytwain's photo
Thu 07/16/09 07:11 AM
Aren't they supposed to be one in the same? Or are you hiding things from Mingle? spock

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/16/09 07:12 AM
I think you have a booga hanging on you

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Thu 07/16/09 07:15 AM

Aren't they supposed to be one in the same? Or are you hiding things from Mingle? spock



Snarky if you think you can explain who you are and what your "personality" is in a profile......we got deeper issues than this thread

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Thu 07/16/09 07:26 AM

But if you guys really recommend I preface everything I say with a "warning" I will.....

...and if you want me to answer all of my questions and reply to all of my statements so you can understand what I mean.......I will


WHatever


That is not the point of the thread!

I want to know what I do to CHANGE MY PROFILE to attract more people who are LIKE ME


Your profile seems fine. If it isn't attracting who you want to attract, only you can decide how to change it.

snarkytwain's photo
Thu 07/16/09 07:29 AM


Aren't they supposed to be one in the same? Or are you hiding things from Mingle? spock



Snarky if you think you can explain who you are and what your "personality" is in a profile......we got deeper issues than this thread


You forget... I'm snarky. :wink:

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Thu 07/16/09 07:31 AM
I think you are the only one who gets the whole, "Snarky Twain" thing...by the way


but youre beautiful...so its okay


snarkytwain's photo
Thu 07/16/09 07:34 AM
Maybe I am. Maybe it's a little inside joke between me and my main man. laugh

GOD I love being a geek!

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Thu 07/16/09 07:58 AM
weird...................thats why i cant find a woman


cuz of sh1s8176t like that:angel: laugh

spacekase's photo
Thu 07/16/09 01:59 PM
the only thing i saw is that ur a smoker, ya kinda lame, but i geuss thats a big thing to most girls. that and wer stoned monkeys,lol. poeple might b a little scurd wen they see that we escaped from the zoo and realy pissed wen they catch use raidin they crop.

but realy as sad and untruthfull as it would be, i garenty u take the smokin off the page and theyll start floodin in. but that wouldnt b u, so..... ? stay true to ur self and sometime or another a female will escape.lol

brokenwings30's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:11 PM
looks good to me

Alison77's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:16 PM
I JUST joined so I am NO EXPERT, but since you asked, I looked & my advice...

Take new pics. Show yourself in different places, outfits, sides of your personality. You can tell that those were all taken at the same time & frankly a couple you know are not flattering you. You aren't an ugly guy, but the angles used would make anyone but Vin Diesel look odd. You say you are into photography, have fun with it. Maybe scan a few older pics that you like of you having fun.

Also, yeah as the post before said, smoking is a turn off. Honesty is great, but I think a lot of people are quitting or trying to be healthier. I know I personally would prefer not to fall for a smoker.

Hope that is they type of critique you are searching for. I'm honest.

Good luck. To both of us.

You seem like someone who would worship the right girl as long as she treated him right. You'll find her. Hang in there.

spinagryzas's photo
Fri 07/17/09 11:47 AM
why i can't finde someone??? i'm 27 years old and still single...scared :cry:

culturedspitfire's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:08 PM
Don't know what age group you are going for but you may try older women. Your intelligence level and maturity level(whats really underneath) is probably too much for women your age and would be appreciated by older more "life experienced" women. And dont forget women are in their sexual prime about 45-55. hope I helped!

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:15 PM
Well me too, 4 months, and nothing.

Atlantis75's photo
Fri 07/17/09 06:59 PM
Try not to focus on finding someone.

Live your life, change things around, don't run the mousewheel if it's the same all over.

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:12 PM

Try not to focus on finding someone.

Live your life, change things around, don't run the mousewheel if it's the same all over.


This is a true story! drinker

I've been here for 7 months and nothing. Well, I did meet a guy that lied about his height and body type. We met and I was really pissed about the lie (not about what I saw so much).

Just relax and see what comes to you.

Honestlyl, I have more luck on 'another' site for dating and I use Mingle for my friends! drinker

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Fri 07/17/09 07:19 PM
If you want to attract someone like yourself then you leave your profile just as it is. You wrote it, you liked it.....it's yours. Why would you change it to suit us?

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 07/17/09 07:20 PM

If you want to attract someone like yourself then you leave your profile just as it is. You wrote it, you liked it.....it's yours. Why would you change it to suit us?


Purrrfect advice! :thumbsup: