Topic: why no response ?
Lastgoodman100's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:05 PM
Look i dont think im unattractive at all,I'm well to do and physically fit so whats up with this site that people dont respond. Please give me a reason to not deactivate . I'm not to stupid forward and i am quite polite . Is it my grammer ? LOL what the hey !

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:06 PM
Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, some users (.01%) get 100 new emails a day if they have a great picture up. People like that don't have time to read your message even if they wanted to.

Lastgoodman100's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:09 PM
I can understand that i have quite a few that send me but honestly i try and answer everybody. Even if its a quick end it response if you know what i mean. But thanks for the input . Randy

ReddBeans's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:09 PM
Don't give up, join in the forums get to know people that way firstdrinker

Lastgoodman100's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:13 PM
Thanks but not giving up. I've met several people here . i'm on 2 sites this one just seems to have more no shows so to speak. Just kinda sick of starting a conversation and the rudeness of not replying . Guess its my southern gentleman side . Maybe i should be more of an arrogant ******* with a chip on my shoulder? Randy

eileena9's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:17 PM
No, don't get nasty....did you check and see if they have been online since you sent the emails? Most people don't check back every day and they might have their notifications settings turned off. That way they won't get an email letting them know you sent a message.flowerforyou

Lastgoodman100's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:18 PM
Makes sense Thanks

ReddBeans's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:20 PM
Don't u dare go losin ur southern gentleman charm, there's too few of ya'll left for us southern womenshades

Lastgoodman100's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:25 PM
Wouldnt think of it I am some lucky ladies to have lol.

DrivingMissHeather9's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:40 PM
Some guy asked for more pics from me and stopped talking to me after I did. And my pictures are great! I happen to think I'm a gorgeous gal and it's his loss for not wanting to get to know me better.
It's the lady's loss if she can't give you the time of day.
Did you really want to talk to her anyway?
Don't get your hopes up! There's nothing wrong with a southern gentleman!

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:43 PM

Look i dont think im unattractive at all,I'm well to do and physically fit so whats up with this site that people dont respond. Please give me a reason to not deactivate . I'm not to stupid forward and i am quite polite . Is it my grammer ? LOL what the hey !


bigsmile You need to write erotic emails to women at randombigsmile

Lastgoodman100's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:43 PM
Well thank you miss heather

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:44 PM
I'm a nice guy!

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 07/14/09 09:45 PM
I'm a nice guy! Oh wait I already declared that.

no photo
Tue 07/14/09 10:02 PM

Some guy asked for more pics from me and stopped talking to me after I did. And my pictures are great! I happen to think I'm a gorgeous gal and it's his loss for not wanting to get to know me better.
It's the lady's loss if she can't give you the time of day.
Did you really want to talk to her anyway?
Don't get your hopes up! There's nothing wrong with a southern gentleman!



I second that!drinks :banana: drinks

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 07/14/09 10:05 PM
If your personality is like your text then you might want to tone it down a little. There is the hard sell and the soft sell. Enthusiasm and upbeat is great but if a gal feels like they have been caught in a jet downdraft they are not going to feel real comfortable. On line you can say you are a nice guy all day long but it you make women nervous that you are overly aggressive you will be skipped. I would add more pictures. You are a pretty baby so might want to include something a little humanizeing.

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 07/14/09 10:09 PM
No idea, you seem nice, just keep emailing.. dont give up. Much like sales, its a numbers game. :wink:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 07/14/09 10:10 PM
Just get used to it dude.

I have been here for quite a while.

I used to send out emails...rarely got any responses. If I did get a response it was a " Sorry. You aren't my type. "

Eventually, you'll figure out that if it bothers you that they don't respond, it's better to just not mail them at all.

The ones that you find attractive, are probably be the same ones that 99% of the other dudes here find attractive.

Unless you happen to be something spectacular ( ie...not a normal, regular dude ) you'll get f**k all just like the rest of us.