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Topic: I Hate this feeling
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Tue 07/14/09 02:30 PM
MY BEST FRIEND IS BLISSFULLY IN LOVE, AND POSTS HER MOODS AND LITTLE COMMENTS EVERYWHERE ABOUT BEING IN LOVE, ETC.

WHEN I NEED TO TALK TO HER, SHE'S ALWAYS TEXTING OR MESSING AROUND ON HER CELL PHONE.

I'VE RECENTLY DISTANCED MYSELF. I'M HAPPY THAT SHE'S FOUND SOMEONE, BUT I CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL ALITTLE ENVIOUS OF HER.

do you think i'm being a bad friend for distancing myself? i hardly think she notices

lonetar25's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:32 PM
she can probably still HEAR you

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:36 PM
I don't know if I would say bad but it seems you are being a "fair weather" friend. When someone falls in love, they tend to be a wee bit distracted. As a friend, you should understand and still be supportive. If she never has time for you anymore, tell her how you're feeling and you both can find "girl time".

You will find someone and wouldn't you love to have a friend to share those feelings with?flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:36 PM

she can probably still HEAR you



laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 07/14/09 02:37 PM

MY BEST FRIEND IS BLISSFULLY IN LOVE, AND POSTS HER MOODS AND LITTLE COMMENTS EVERYWHERE ABOUT BEING IN LOVE, ETC.

WHEN I NEED TO TALK TO HER, SHE'S ALWAYS TEXTING OR MESSING AROUND ON HER CELL PHONE.

I'VE RECENTLY DISTANCED MYSELF. I'M HAPPY THAT SHE'S FOUND SOMEONE, BUT I CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL ALITTLE ENVIOUS OF HER.

do you think i'm being a bad friend for distancing myself? i hardly think she notices
maybe you would do the same,if you was in love:smile: ps.....do you want my laugh phone number,and maybe you will laugh fall in loveflowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:38 PM
:cry: I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel:cry:

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:40 PM

:cry: I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel:cry:


I would invite you to be my unicycle but I don't like your picture. Now if you were a normal guy with a moustache I might consider it.flowerforyou

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Tue 07/14/09 02:40 PM
Edited by Jmsal_23 on Tue 07/14/09 02:41 PM

I don't know if I would say bad but it seems you are being a "fair weather" friend. When someone falls in love, they tend to be a wee bit distracted. As a friend, you should understand and still be supportive. If she never has time for you anymore, tell her how you're feeling and you both can find "girl time".

You will find someone and wouldn't you love to have a friend to share those feelings with?flowerforyou


Yeah i miss our girl time...I'll always be there for her, weather it be catching her if she falls, or supporting her in her new adventure.

I'm entitled to be silly once in awhile

74Drew's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:41 PM

:cry: I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel:cry:

amen

being single when your friends aren't feels like there isn't enough love in the world to go around.



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Tue 07/14/09 02:42 PM
maybe she isnt noticing but if youve been a good friend and now shes ignoring you thats rough just sit back and let her slowly come back to you im sure she will when she needs you just be happy for her keep your distance and see what she does

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:44 PM


:cry: I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel:cry:


I would invite you to be my unicycle but I don't like your picture. Now if you were a normal guy with a moustache I might consider it.flowerforyou




Lol, everytime i put that pic up, my profile views go through the roof, regular pic = ghost town!

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Tue 07/14/09 02:45 PM
Edited by Jmsal_23 on Tue 07/14/09 02:46 PM


:cry: I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel:cry:

amen

being single when your friends aren't feels like there isn't enough love in the world to go around.



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LOL yup...i feel left out grumble where's my love

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Tue 07/14/09 02:46 PM


:cry: I'm tired of being a 3rd 5th or 7th wheel:cry:

amen

being single when your friends aren't feels like there isn't enough love in the world to go around.



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There are some nights out etc. that i won't go out with them because i am single,, it's almost embarrassing .

7z3r05's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:51 PM
jealous women are HAWT!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 07/14/09 02:53 PM
time start runnin game yourself flowerforyou

seamac's photo
Tue 07/14/09 05:26 PM
It is hard when you feel neglected by a friend but you must know from your own experience how time and emotionally consuming those early days of new love are. I predict that given time your friends new love relationship will find it's natural place in her life and she will once again have time for the rest of her life, including you. Try to be happy for her, give her time, understand that what you are feeling is normal too. No one is at fault here so don't beat up on either one of you.

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 07/14/09 05:31 PM
Hey, friendships are like ocean waves. They roll in, splash on the beach for a while and roll back out. Then they roll back into the beach again. If she's a real friend she'll be back. If she's not you aren't missing anything special.

tngxl65's photo
Wed 07/15/09 02:21 PM
She probably does need a little extra space right now. I know how you feel though. It is tough not to hurt a little when you see others finding happiness and is seems like there's none for you.

Your relationship with your friend will probably wane for a while then oscillate, and then settle in a new groove. I'd say to do your best to be supportive and happy for her. Your time will come!

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/15/09 02:28 PM
If she's a true friend she will realize

With time

How important you are in her life

Men come and go

Freinds are forever!



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Wed 07/15/09 04:18 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Wed 07/15/09 04:20 PM
men come and go...nice pundrinker


anyway to the OP....look if it doesn't work out with the guy you'll be the first one she calls......if it does work out then she'll call you for a "girls night out":smile:

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