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Topic: confusion
FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:39 PM



omg... ok people say play hard to get, give the guy a challenge. ok so i play the hard to get with one guy and he gets pissed and says leave him alone. i dont ignore i just play hard to get. then with another i guy i wont and then he acts like he has nothing to worry about that he has me and thats that like the first week of dating so he starts acting like we've been together for four years, so i break it off because he finds it unnecessary to talk to me.. ive been outta of the dating scene too long. i dont know what to do. i want to find something real. i just dont know how. its so confusing


Be yourself, does wonders.


i love you fear


Oh, shucks!blushing blushing

7z3r05's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:39 PM
no dude, i mean that.

from the bottom of my heart...

im gonna send you a 'blow you a kiss' nudge.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:41 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Mon 07/13/09 10:41 PM

no dude, i mean that.

from the bottom of my heart...

im gonna send you a 'blow you a kiss' nudge.


I'll catch it and throw one back at you.love love

7z3r05's photo
Mon 07/13/09 10:42 PM
love be still my mother****ing heart love

vortecpowered's photo
Mon 07/13/09 11:33 PM



a good rule of thumb is...put yourself in their place. If you wouldn't like it....then don't do it


that's a tricky one. every woman who has ever tried to think like me has failed miserably. i'm not surprised considering i wouldn't be able to think like a woman either.


see thats true to because... when a woman thinks something it can mean something totally different to a guy. like a friend of mine didnt get a text from a guy and she started flipping saying omg he doesnt want me any more. now sometimes not all the time with a guy, they are like well she must be busy shell text me in a little while when she isnt busy, he wont go crazy


that's insane. if i don't text someone back immediately or i miss a call it means i'm busy have the phone on silent or something simple like that and i assume the same of others. sure it could be something worse but why assume that first? if you stub your toe do you assume you have cancer? makes about as much sense.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 07/13/09 11:36 PM
Ya know. It's really not that hard to figure out. Just BE WHO YOU ARE!!!!

It's as simple as that.

After all. Once the " playing hard to get " wears off, you are gonna be left with nothing more than who you are.

Why not just start off that way??

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