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Topic: Booty call or dateable?
mcgilvrey21's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:27 PM
Okay so question....
In the world of internet dating, once you graduate to text/phone conversations and then meeting the person. How can you tell if your an expected booty call or an actual dating interest???

lonetar25's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:29 PM
i`d hope you didnt get to the meeting stage before you`d worked that out flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:29 PM
I'm sure if the date wants a booty call...you will know it when he/she tries something

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:30 PM
I would be able to tell before we meet!......This has been my experience.

TxsSun's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:31 PM
Edited by TxsSun on Mon 07/13/09 05:31 PM

Okay so question....
In the world of internet dating, once you graduate to text/phone conversations and then meeting the person. How can you tell if your an expected booty call or an actual dating interest???


Go with your own instincts and if you are still unsure, ask the question.

mcgilvrey21's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:32 PM
well, you cant actually expect a guy to come right out and be like
'yep. just looking to hook up. you game?'
It never works out like that for me...

TxsSun's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:33 PM
I can usually tell like Pats, but if not then I wait until we meet and ask in person. I am really good at reading people, most of the time.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:35 PM

Okay so question....
In the world of internet dating, once you graduate to text/phone conversations and then meeting the person. How can you tell if your an expected booty call or an actual dating interest???
:smile: what the guy talks about.:smile: if he keeps bringing up sex or is being shady about himself then probably a booty call or stupidity:smile:

Poetrywriter's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:36 PM
A woman would actually think after meeting me that I was just a booty call? Well I never.......! I will just have to feel guilty in the morning! laugh Seriously, I think that within a few minutes after meeting, a person has this built in radar that just knows whether that is what was wanted!

Duffy's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:37 PM
um whatsa bootee call?
here booteee booteee/???

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:38 PM
Depends what you want but the booty call sounds pretty dangerous idea. I agree with earlier post; that concept should have been discussed before you accepted the date. While I tend to expect that it doesn't will not mean that who you are meeting won't. You might want to tell him what your plans are at least and having a discussion about dating expectations and boundries in general sounds like a good idea. Kind of a waste going a totally different direction than someone you are dating.

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:38 PM


Okay so question....
In the world of internet dating, once you graduate to text/phone conversations and then meeting the person. How can you tell if your an expected booty call or an actual dating interest???
:smile: what the guy talks about.:smile: if he keeps bringing up sex or is being shady about himself then probably a booty call or stupidity:smile:


Exactly... And if he isn't getting it when you meet, you'll soon know if you don't hear from him after the date...

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:39 PM

um whatsa bootee call?
here booteee booteee/???
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

mcgilvrey21's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:40 PM

Depends what you want but the booty call sounds pretty dangerous idea. I agree with earlier post; that concept should have been discussed before you accepted the date. While I tend to expect that it doesn't will not mean that who you are meeting won't. You might want to tell him what your plans are at least and having a discussion about dating expectations and boundries in general sounds like a good idea. Kind of a waste going a totally different direction than someone you are dating.


agreed completely. I hate wasting my time on someone who is only looking for sex. I hate putting energy into developing a relationship only to find out they aren't interested in whats in my head but whats in my pants. Very aggravating.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:40 PM
:smile: Some dudes don't really have an agenda,they are just stupid and want to see what they can get away with.:smile:

Duffy's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:41 PM
well i know in some languages, that booty is yur bum....
so could that bee just a one night stand booteee thinga ma gig?

no photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:41 PM

Okay so question....
In the world of internet dating, once you graduate to text/phone conversations and then meeting the person. How can you tell if your an expected booty call or an actual dating interest???


Basically put, you CAN'T tell. You will have had to meet and have known each other (in person) for at least a period before you can figure that out.

mcgilvrey21's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:43 PM


Okay so question....
In the world of internet dating, once you graduate to text/phone conversations and then meeting the person. How can you tell if your an expected booty call or an actual dating interest???


Basically put, you CAN'T tell. You will have had to meet and have known each other (in person) for at least a period before you can figure that out.


is that not annoying to anyone else?? Putting effort into a relationship and finding out it was all for nothing??

Duffy's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:43 PM
um i think u just ask the dude or dudette if they or whoever likes to fick, and git it over with...
that will settle lots of stuff PDQ...am i wrong here for being an old grannie?
BTW in my day we did not do bootee calls....but heidi fleiss in cali did, and u know what happened to her....

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 07/13/09 05:43 PM

well i know in some languages, that booty is yur bum....
so could that bee just a one night stand booteee thinga ma gig?
bigsmile basicallyflowerforyou

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