She totally wants you, go get her!

Ok so I just sent her this... I know there will be some smarass remarks like some of the ones before this post but oh well.


"Maybe you're right, you don't want to talk on the phone with me or see me. You have the ball in your court where you want it, but I'm the only one suffering here. I guess you can have it your way, I'll leave you alone and I hope someday you forgive the guy that loved you for you, and wanted this more than he should have. I'm tired of your "I'm in control here" attitude. Don't worry about responding.

Good bye!"

the problem is...the ball is actually in your court but you won't see it. I understand it's hard for you and it hurts. But you are in control of whether or not you let her do this to you.

My thumbs would have died before I finished that one.
"Later" would have sufficed.

A very smart man here on Mingle taught me a thing or two about ending things. Now that you have sent that (it could have been shorter and less hostile btw), leave it at that. Don't read/reply/correspond anymore. You ended it. Stick with it.

P.S. It sounded to me like she's dating someone else.

Sounds like it. Move on to bigger and better things.

Think he might have any good ideas on how to get things started???

started?

Yeah. As in...Getting someone to pay enough attention to you to even get to the point of dating in the first place.

Started.

I went through that with a girl I fell hard for, only difference is we actually were intimate with each other.

Took me a few months to catch on, but as soon as I caught on I did away with her and just about everyone associated with her (that was one hell of a drunk night though, I had a blast with pint after pint of Guinness)!

Tell her the last time she was online she sounded just like a man.
and ask her if she's sure her boyfriend hasn't gotten into her account.

playing mind games

yea, I guess you are all right here, but getting to the point of no hurt may be a while, Thank you all for listening and the advise.

Agreed. She's jerkin' you around. Cut the cord and move on. And THAT means NO contact whatsoever. If she wants to make a legitimate attempt at conversing with you, then that's another story... but the head games and the chain-jerking is a definite no-go.

It sounds like she's not interested or could be playing games with u. U should find out if she's willing 2 make a go of things with u and if she's just playing with u my adive is 2 just walk away she's not worth it

Plenty of other fish in the sea

" gee thanks, bye!" doesn't sound very promising to me.

Getting over things is different for everyone, some like me can do it quickly...others it can take years or even the rest of their life. You don't sound like it will take the rest of your life, but be prepared...hurt tends to feel more intense than care, or at least we as people focus more on hurt than care...either way it is a truly screwed system.

I guess it's really up to me, but how come the old saying comes to my head, "some guys finish and wipe"

...don't even go there. Promise me! It's not safe!

* grabs the popcorn *