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Topic: When do you know you are healed?
silly's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:01 AM
It just takes time.we have all been there.but we all come out the better for it

tngxl65's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:01 AM
I'm confused. The other day you had a thread about telling your best friend that you loved her and she didn't feel the same and then she broke off all contact with you. Is this the same girl? None of this 'needing to heal' came up in that thread.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:02 AM





I think im DONE with the "dating" thing!!!! Tired of all the HURT!!!!

I think the "one nighters" might work better!!!!laugh :wink:

I hightly doubt theres ANYONE out there, that will be able to come close to my heart EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!ohwell smokin



spock Seriously?flowerforyou

yes.........seriously!
The 1st time IN A VERY LONG TIME, I gave love a shot....it was WONDERFUL.........but it once again ended in nothing but HURT!!! I cant do it again! It takes TOO LONG to go on, to be truly HAPPY, when youve TRULY LOVED SOMEONE!!!!!!!




flowerforyou Instead of falling in love maybe you should focus on just being friends firstflowerforyou

THATS ALWAYS how I start out........in ANY relationship ive been in!!!!flowerforyou I believe in friendship FIRST!!!!!!!



flowerforyou Well, I mean focus on just being friends.flowerforyou Let the love stuff happen on its ownflowerforyou

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:04 AM

I'm confused. The other day you had a thread about telling your best friend that you loved her and she didn't feel the same and then she broke off all contact with you. Is this the same girl? None of this 'needing to heal' came up in that thread.


Yes I have to heal from her. Same Friend. It actually hurts to have someone like that walk away with a simple text message only.

BL4766's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:05 AM






I think im DONE with the "dating" thing!!!! Tired of all the HURT!!!!

I think the "one nighters" might work better!!!!laugh :wink:

I hightly doubt theres ANYONE out there, that will be able to come close to my heart EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!ohwell smokin



spock Seriously?flowerforyou

yes.........seriously!
The 1st time IN A VERY LONG TIME, I gave love a shot....it was WONDERFUL.........but it once again ended in nothing but HURT!!! I cant do it again! It takes TOO LONG to go on, to be truly HAPPY, when youve TRULY LOVED SOMEONE!!!!!!!




flowerforyou Instead of falling in love maybe you should focus on just being friends firstflowerforyou

THATS ALWAYS how I start out........in ANY relationship ive been in!!!!flowerforyou I believe in friendship FIRST!!!!!!!



flowerforyou Well, I mean focus on just being friends.flowerforyou Let the love stuff happen on its ownflowerforyou

my LAST relationship was exactly THAT!!! We were friends FOREVER....& it turned to MORE........but ended being hurt!
And THANKS MIRROR...............FOR CARING!!!!flowerforyou It means ALOT!flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:06 AM


I'm confused. The other day you had a thread about telling your best friend that you loved her and she didn't feel the same and then she broke off all contact with you. Is this the same girl? None of this 'needing to heal' came up in that thread.


Yes I have to heal from her. Same Friend. It actually hurts to have someone like that walk away with a simple text message only.

ouch that sucks, but focus on moving forward and enjoy the journey

franshade's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:07 AM







I think im DONE with the "dating" thing!!!! Tired of all the HURT!!!!

I think the "one nighters" might work better!!!!laugh :wink:

I hightly doubt theres ANYONE out there, that will be able to come close to my heart EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!ohwell smokin



spock Seriously?flowerforyou

yes.........seriously!
The 1st time IN A VERY LONG TIME, I gave love a shot....it was WONDERFUL.........but it once again ended in nothing but HURT!!! I cant do it again! It takes TOO LONG to go on, to be truly HAPPY, when youve TRULY LOVED SOMEONE!!!!!!!




flowerforyou Instead of falling in love maybe you should focus on just being friends firstflowerforyou

THATS ALWAYS how I start out........in ANY relationship ive been in!!!!flowerforyou I believe in friendship FIRST!!!!!!!



flowerforyou Well, I mean focus on just being friends.flowerforyou Let the love stuff happen on its ownflowerforyou

my LAST relationship was exactly THAT!!! We were friends FOREVER....& it turned to MORE........but ended being hurt!
And THANKS MIRROR...............FOR CARING!!!!flowerforyou It means ALOT!flowerforyou

this sucks - sorry you are going through a rough time flowerforyou

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:09 AM







I think im DONE with the "dating" thing!!!! Tired of all the HURT!!!!

I think the "one nighters" might work better!!!!laugh :wink:

I hightly doubt theres ANYONE out there, that will be able to come close to my heart EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!ohwell smokin



spock Seriously?flowerforyou

yes.........seriously!
The 1st time IN A VERY LONG TIME, I gave love a shot....it was WONDERFUL.........but it once again ended in nothing but HURT!!! I cant do it again! It takes TOO LONG to go on, to be truly HAPPY, when youve TRULY LOVED SOMEONE!!!!!!!




flowerforyou Instead of falling in love maybe you should focus on just being friends firstflowerforyou

THATS ALWAYS how I start out........in ANY relationship ive been in!!!!flowerforyou I believe in friendship FIRST!!!!!!!



flowerforyou Well, I mean focus on just being friends.flowerforyou Let the love stuff happen on its ownflowerforyou

my LAST relationship was exactly THAT!!! We were friends FOREVER....& it turned to MORE........but ended being hurt!
And THANKS MIRROR...............FOR CARING!!!!flowerforyou It means ALOT!flowerforyou


Friendship breakups are sometimes harder than romantic ones in my opinion. If you are friends first shouldn't there be some way to talk things over if bad things build? If love sprouts for one person and not the other the friend leaves and you lost on two fronts.

BL4766's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:16 AM








I think im DONE with the "dating" thing!!!! Tired of all the HURT!!!!

I think the "one nighters" might work better!!!!laugh :wink:

I hightly doubt theres ANYONE out there, that will be able to come close to my heart EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!ohwell smokin



spock Seriously?flowerforyou

yes.........seriously!
The 1st time IN A VERY LONG TIME, I gave love a shot....it was WONDERFUL.........but it once again ended in nothing but HURT!!! I cant do it again! It takes TOO LONG to go on, to be truly HAPPY, when youve TRULY LOVED SOMEONE!!!!!!!




flowerforyou Instead of falling in love maybe you should focus on just being friends firstflowerforyou

THATS ALWAYS how I start out........in ANY relationship ive been in!!!!flowerforyou I believe in friendship FIRST!!!!!!!



flowerforyou Well, I mean focus on just being friends.flowerforyou Let the love stuff happen on its ownflowerforyou

my LAST relationship was exactly THAT!!! We were friends FOREVER....& it turned to MORE........but ended being hurt!
And THANKS MIRROR...............FOR CARING!!!!flowerforyou It means ALOT!flowerforyou


Friendship breakups are sometimes harder than romantic ones in my opinion. If you are friends first shouldn't there be some way to talk things over if bad things build? If love sprouts for one person and not the other the friend leaves and you lost on two fronts.

There was LOVE on both sides...............and YES, i have been TRYING to regain that "friendship" back......slowly......but...only time will tell whether its rebuilt again!ohwell Im sure HOPING SO!

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:17 AM









I think im DONE with the "dating" thing!!!! Tired of all the HURT!!!!

I think the "one nighters" might work better!!!!laugh :wink:

I hightly doubt theres ANYONE out there, that will be able to come close to my heart EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!ohwell smokin



spock Seriously?flowerforyou

yes.........seriously!
The 1st time IN A VERY LONG TIME, I gave love a shot....it was WONDERFUL.........but it once again ended in nothing but HURT!!! I cant do it again! It takes TOO LONG to go on, to be truly HAPPY, when youve TRULY LOVED SOMEONE!!!!!!!




flowerforyou Instead of falling in love maybe you should focus on just being friends firstflowerforyou

THATS ALWAYS how I start out........in ANY relationship ive been in!!!!flowerforyou I believe in friendship FIRST!!!!!!!



flowerforyou Well, I mean focus on just being friends.flowerforyou Let the love stuff happen on its ownflowerforyou

my LAST relationship was exactly THAT!!! We were friends FOREVER....& it turned to MORE........but ended being hurt!
And THANKS MIRROR...............FOR CARING!!!!flowerforyou It means ALOT!flowerforyou


Friendship breakups are sometimes harder than romantic ones in my opinion. If you are friends first shouldn't there be some way to talk things over if bad things build? If love sprouts for one person and not the other the friend leaves and you lost on two fronts.

There was LOVE on both sides...............and YES, i have been TRYING to regain that "friendship" back......slowly......but...only time will tell whether its rebuilt again!ohwell Im sure HOPING SO!


I Hope for that for you as well, I truly do, Because I'm also there.

BL4766's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:18 AM
flowerforyou THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:24 AM







I think im DONE with the "dating" thing!!!! Tired of all the HURT!!!!

I think the "one nighters" might work better!!!!laugh :wink:

I hightly doubt theres ANYONE out there, that will be able to come close to my heart EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!ohwell smokin



spock Seriously?flowerforyou

yes.........seriously!
The 1st time IN A VERY LONG TIME, I gave love a shot....it was WONDERFUL.........but it once again ended in nothing but HURT!!! I cant do it again! It takes TOO LONG to go on, to be truly HAPPY, when youve TRULY LOVED SOMEONE!!!!!!!




flowerforyou Instead of falling in love maybe you should focus on just being friends firstflowerforyou

THATS ALWAYS how I start out........in ANY relationship ive been in!!!!flowerforyou I believe in friendship FIRST!!!!!!!



flowerforyou Well, I mean focus on just being friends.flowerforyou Let the love stuff happen on its ownflowerforyou

my LAST relationship was exactly THAT!!! We were friends FOREVER....& it turned to MORE........but ended being hurt!
And THANKS MIRROR...............FOR CARING!!!!flowerforyou It means ALOT!flowerforyou


flowerforyou Thank youflowerforyou

flowerforyou It helps to try not to have any expectationsflowerforyou

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:27 AM
The only expectation I had with my friend is that she understand how much I enjoyed her and being around her, and then the love thing threw her for a loop..

I expect to recover, but I wish my friend was still here.

trgirl's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:34 AM

brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart


brokenheart flowerforyou

BL4766's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:41 AM

The only expectation I had with my friend is that she understand how much I enjoyed her and being around her, and then the love thing threw her for a loop..

I expect to recover, but I wish my friend was still here.

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Thu 07/09/09 11:50 AM


The only expectation I had with my friend is that she understand how much I enjoyed her and being around her, and then the love thing threw her for a loop..

I expect to recover, but I wish my friend was still here.

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


Thanks BL
flowerforyou happy

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