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Topic: when is the right time to fall in love
SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Tue 07/07/09 02:57 PM
i have seen here like that thats why is is perfect Quite frankly, when there's kids involved, this is the time to definitely go very slowly, without the kids' involvement. Kids become victims of the dating game just as much as adults and it affects them far longer and in ways beyond comprehension, unless you've been there, done that. It's been 4 dates, what's the rush? If it's the real thing, it'll still be there a year from now. If it's not, at least you didn't cause any more harm to anyone than absolutely necessary.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 07/07/09 02:58 PM
Maybe you should just tell her you "like her a lot", and try that on for size for awhile. Then you don't run the risk of scaring her away.

eyes_blue Joined Mon 03/30/09 Posts: 124	Tue 07/07/09 03:02 PM
thanku i think i will try that tonight when i pick her up thanku

Anonimoose Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 479	Tue 07/07/09 05:09 PM
8:27 pm

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Tue 07/07/09 05:18 PM
Love usually works in pairs. One gets on all fours behind you while the other walks right up and pushes you over! Sneaky lil'bastards

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Tue 07/07/09 05:28 PM
Best of luck to you

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 07/07/09 05:34 PM
I meet this wonderful women on this dating site. today will be are fourth date .she is wonderful her kids are wonderful she is the perfect mom and wife a man could want.the thing is im falling in love with them is it to soon ,im i going to scare them away ,how dos she feel,when is it ok to say i love you ? please i need some advise If you met her ,and she likes you, then its okay to fall in love. Just make sure she likes you first.

Anonimoose Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 479	Tue 07/07/09 05:35 PM
i have seen here like that thats why is is perfect Quite frankly, when there's kids involved, this is the time to definitely go very slowly, without the kids' involvement. Kids become victims of the dating game just as much as adults and it affects them far longer and in ways beyond comprehension, unless you've been there, done that. It's been 4 dates, what's the rush? If it's the real thing, it'll still be there a year from now. If it's not, at least you didn't cause any more harm to anyone than absolutely necessary. Sage advice from Suz right there

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 07/07/09 06:10 PM
Show her with actions first. If she's with you on the same page, she will start showing you too. (one way or the other) Save the words for later.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Tue 07/07/09 08:51 PM
Maybe you should just tell her you "like her a lot", and try that on for size for awhile. Then you don't run the risk of scaring her away. Must be an echo in here

AdventureBegins Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 7666	Tue 07/07/09 09:52 PM
The right time is when it happens. Just remember that you are only a few dates into the high hormones... which just might be clouding your judgement. and enjoy getting to know her.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/07/09 09:57 PM
If I saw her on Monday Met her on Tuesday Dated her on Wednesday Married her on Thursday Divorced her On Friday On Saturday I can say I had a very full week

eyes_blue Joined Mon 03/30/09 Posts: 124	Wed 07/08/09 01:14 AM
i took your advise thankyou it really help the date went great didnt want it to end told her i really like her and she told me the same the love part will come out when its ready to i just want to make sure i can take care of her and her kids first before i say it thank you for all the great advise

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 07/08/09 01:23 AM
I meet this wonderful women on this dating site. today will be are fourth date .she is wonderful her kids are wonderful she is the perfect mom and wife a man could want.the thing is im falling in love with them is it to soon ,im i going to scare them away ,how dos she feel,when is it ok to say i love you ? please i need some advise IMO, you should wait until she says it. wait until it's awkward that neither of you has said it. in my experience, saying it early when you're feeling the original tingles is a bad move. . . .

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Wed 07/08/09 10:07 AM
I meet this wonderful women on this dating site. today will be are fourth date .she is wonderful her kids are wonderful she is the perfect mom and wife a man could want.the thing is im falling in love with them is it to soon ,im i going to scare them away ,how dos she feel,when is it ok to say i love you ? please i need some advise IMO, you should wait until she says it. wait until it's awkward that neither of you has said it. in my experience, saying it early when you're feeling the original tingles is a bad move. . . . most women are told to not say it til after the man says it, out of fear of being seen as desperate, if she's one of those women, she'll never say it first.

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Wed 07/08/09 10:22 AM
I meet this wonderful women on this dating site. today will be are fourth date .she is wonderful her kids are wonderful she is the perfect mom and wife a man could want.the thing is im falling in love with them is it to soon ,im i going to scare them away ,how dos she feel,when is it ok to say i love you ? please i need some advise IMO, you should wait until she says it. wait until it's awkward that neither of you has said it. in my experience, saying it early when you're feeling the original tingles is a bad move. . . . most women are told to not say it til after the man says it, out of fear of being seen as desperate, if she's one of those women, she'll never say it first. that's unfortunate. i'll never again say it first. every time i've said it first it's been handed back to me with some b.s. "i don't see you that way", "you're in love with the idea of being in love"......barf. whatever. it's not coming out of my mouth first. . . .

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Wed 07/08/09 10:27 AM
I meet this wonderful women on this dating site. today will be are fourth date .she is wonderful her kids are wonderful she is the perfect mom and wife a man could want.the thing is im falling in love with them is it to soon ,im i going to scare them away ,how dos she feel,when is it ok to say i love you ? please i need some advise IMO, you should wait until she says it. wait until it's awkward that neither of you has said it. in my experience, saying it early when you're feeling the original tingles is a bad move. . . . most women are told to not say it til after the man says it, out of fear of being seen as desperate, if she's one of those women, she'll never say it first. that's unfortunate. i'll never again say it first. every time i've said it first it's been handed back to me with some b.s. "i don't see you that way", "you're in love with the idea of being in love"......barf. whatever. it's not coming out of my mouth first. . . . to each his own.