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Topic: when is the right time to fall in love
eyes_blue's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:18 PM
I meet this wonderful women on this dating site. today will be are fourth date .she is wonderful her kids are wonderful she is the perfect mom and wife a man could want.the thing is im falling in love with them is it to soon ,im i going to scare them away ,how dos she feel,when is it ok to say i love you ? please i need some advise

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:20 PM
ASAP

RKISIT's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:20 PM
in the fall:smile:

lonetar25's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:22 PM
dont tell her you love her on your 4th date
dont waste it
wait till you really hurt her, then you bring out the big gun

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:27 PM
Through a text message

robert1652's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:30 PM
If I saw her on Monday
Met her on Tuesday
Dated her on Wednesday
Married her on Thursday
Divorced her On Friday
On Saturday I can say
I had a very full week


Kleisto's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:31 PM
I'd take it slow personally, true love just can't be rushed. I've found that many many times over. Good luck!

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:33 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Tue 07/07/09 02:33 PM
Personally, I'm under the idea that love is a rare find anymore...so rare in fact you would have to date at least 500,000 men/women to find the "one".

Who knows, maybe she is the type of girl that likes to hear 'I love you' on the fourth date...probably not, but who knows.

racerx767's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:34 PM
Edited by racerx767 on Tue 07/07/09 02:35 PM
you will know when!!!!!! because there will be front page headlines..... HELL HAS DONE IT. IT HAS FINALLY FROZE OVER. NEVER SAY IT

auburngirl's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:34 PM
It isn't too soon. Sometimes, you just know. I wouldn't blurt out the I love you. Start by something like "I'm falling for you" or something along those lines. You can likely tell by her reaction if she's on the same page as you are. Good luck!

eyes_blue's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:34 PM
i like your answer dont want to get hurt though

auburngirl's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:38 PM

i like your answer dont want to get hurt though


Of course you don't. But what are your choices? Don't try, be alone. Or...take that leap of faith. Trust in yourself, in her. Give it time. You Will know when the time is right.

racerx767's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:39 PM
never FALL for anyone stand tall

auburngirl's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:41 PM

never FALL for anyone stand tall


OR...fall and let them catch you.

no photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:41 PM
If you still thinks she's a perfect mom and wife, then it's too soon. You are in the throes of infatuation, most likely. When you start seeing her as human and flawed and think you love her anyway, then you can tell her. flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:43 PM
Whenever you feel like it!!!

s1owhand's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:45 PM
it's too late. she read this thread. might as well fess up!

laugh

i'd go for the "i really like you" line first though for a
few weeks at least.

eyes_blue's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:47 PM
thankyou i like your answer

Winx's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:49 PM

If you still thinks she's a perfect mom and wife, then it's too soon. You are in the throes of infatuation, most likely. When you start seeing her as human and flawed and think you love her anyway, then you can tell her. flowerforyou


I agree big time!

eyes_blue's photo
Tue 07/07/09 02:51 PM
i have seen here like that thats why is is perfect

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