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Topic: where's all the nice guys
RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 07/09/09 06:05 PM
so then in your opinion what is a nice guy?

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Thu 07/09/09 06:07 PM
In my opinion a nice guy is genuine, trustworthy...not a cheater or a liar, treats a woman like a gentleman should, respectful and loving. He is considerate and funny and not a cheat or abusive in any way....he isn't manipulative and he wants to be himself around her and wants her to be herself around him.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 07/09/09 06:09 PM
In my opinion a nice guy is genuine, trustworthy...not a cheater or a liar, treats a woman like a gentleman should, respectful and loving. He is considerate and funny and not a cheat or abusive in any way....he isn't manipulative and he wants to be himself around her and wants her to be herself around him. that is called a "a man"

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Thu 07/09/09 06:10 PM
In my opinion a nice guy is genuine, trustworthy...not a cheater or a liar, treats a woman like a gentleman should, respectful and loving. He is considerate and funny and not a cheat or abusive in any way....he isn't manipulative and he wants to be himself around her and wants her to be herself around him. that is called a "a man" Well then maybe my nice guy is a man.... great definition of one...

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Thu 07/09/09 06:10 PM Edited by Gossipmpm on Thu 07/09/09 06:11 PM
To me a nice guy is A man who has the decency to accept another human being No matter how different. Without making fun with the other idiots

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 07/09/09 06:10 PM
In my opinion a nice guy is genuine, trustworthy...not a cheater or a liar, treats a woman like a gentleman should, respectful and loving. He is considerate and funny and not a cheat or abusive in any way....he isn't manipulative and he wants to be himself around her and wants her to be herself around him. that is called a "a man" claps hands yes yes yes

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 07/09/09 06:11 PM
In my opinion a nice guy is genuine, trustworthy...not a cheater or a liar, treats a woman like a gentleman should, respectful and loving. He is considerate and funny and not a cheat or abusive in any way....he isn't manipulative and he wants to be himself around her and wants her to be herself around him. that is called a "a man" claps hands yes yes yes

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Thu 07/09/09 06:11 PM
There are plenty of people like that. Then people get hurt or taken advantage of for their honesty and close them self off or put up mental blocks to keep the hurt out. They are out there I think they might just require a little hard work and effort to get to. BUt anything worth having is worth working for right?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 07/09/09 06:15 PM
There are plenty of people like that. Then people get hurt or taken advantage of for their honesty and close them self off or put up mental blocks to keep the hurt out. They are out there I think they might just require a little hard work and effort to get to. BUt anything worth having is worth working for right? are you talking about a point system?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 07/09/09 06:15 PM
In my opinion a nice guy is genuine, trustworthy...not a cheater or a liar, treats a woman like a gentleman should, respectful and loving. He is considerate and funny and not a cheat or abusive in any way....he isn't manipulative and he wants to be himself around her and wants her to be herself around him. that is called a "a man" Well then maybe my nice guy is a man.... great definition of one... you are free to call a man what ever you wish...but i prefer to be called an a$$hole then a "nice guy"...just seems to work for me

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Thu 07/09/09 06:15 PM
I agree that they are difficult to find, but they shouldn't ignore the good women right in front of them...I think people do get beaten down in bad past relationships, but still they need to let go a little to meet a good match when it comes along.

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Thu 07/09/09 06:16 PM
I agree that they are difficult to find, but they shouldn't ignore the good women right in front of them...I think people do get beaten down in bad past relationships, but still they need to let go a little to meet a good match when it comes along. I agree, no guts, no glory. If people never acted for fear of being hurt, no one would get married.

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Thu 07/09/09 06:18 PM
In my opinion a nice guy is genuine, trustworthy...not a cheater or a liar, treats a woman like a gentleman should, respectful and loving. He is considerate and funny and not a cheat or abusive in any way....he isn't manipulative and he wants to be himself around her and wants her to be herself around him. I don't think that's too much to ask of someone. The problem is many guys (and even some girls perhaps), only care of themselves and their own needs (aka sex) instead of really caring for another person, their wants and needs, what really makes them tick deep down in their heart and soul.

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Thu 07/09/09 06:19 PM
Yeah, but so many won't even give a good person a chance..or maybe it's just what I've seen....

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Thu 07/09/09 06:20 PM
Yeah, but so many won't even give a good person a chance..or maybe it's just what I've seen.... Yeah it is sad, some people don't know what they missed out on till it's not there anymore. But you know what, in the end it's their loss and someone else's gain.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Thu 07/09/09 06:22 PM
A point system? I don't get it. Trusting someone enough to open up is hard for some people. Some people get to a point where trust has to be earned before it is given. That goes for man and woman alike.(Not that I feel like that, just pointing out from what I've seen from people I know.)

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 07/09/09 06:22 PM
I agree that they are difficult to find, but they shouldn't ignore the good women right in front of them...I think people do get beaten down in bad past relationships, but still they need to let go a little to meet a good match when it comes along. hello nice guys on here complain about the so called "good woman"gone bad relationship they had...a man sees a good woman and knows how to hold on to her...unfortunately some of us a$$holes are busy meeting easy lays

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Thu 07/09/09 06:27 PM
A point system? I don't get it. Trusting someone enough to open up is hard for some people. Some people get to a point where trust has to be earned before it is given. That goes for man and woman alike.(Not that I feel like that, just pointing out from what I've seen from people I know.) I agree and I think trust should always be earned not just feely given....that is first class ticket to sadness and disappointemnt. However, it seems they close up so much that they never give anyone great a shot....that's pretty sad too...

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Thu 07/09/09 08:24 PM
Nice guys? Huh? What's that? Has anyone ever seen one? lololol I think they hang out with bigfoot. Oh I'm sure of it...or the Loch Ness monster.... biggie foots and miss nessie are good friends of mine. we get together and pass around the bottle talking about how people never manage to prove we exist. good times. good times. . . .

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Thu 07/09/09 08:25 PM
Oh wait..they're probably all with the *itchy girls who treat them like crap.....ahhhhhh....that's right....... Why didn't I think of that sooner??? Thats like all the nice girls who get taken advantage of and treated like crap by the a-holes they fall for. that's the way it works here in the midwest. are things different where you're from? . . .