Thanks for your help if you decide to post something of importance. :] Just wanted to say that right away.


So I've been a complete idiot at the whole date thing since my boyfriend of two years and I broke up a little more than a year ago. That and no one has sparked my interest.

But, I was at this small party on July fourth. I was with my cousin, best friend, some other friends and then aquaintances. We all got drunk, obviously and I am usually the kind of person to be quiet if there are people I don't really know around.

I met this guy, and we ended up staying up until like 8 in the morning just talking after everyone passed out. (they passed out at like 2-3) We tried to watch movies, but it didn't work lol. I had met him a few times before at an ex friends apartment, but we never talked to eachother because he has the same problem as me, the whole anti-social around people they don't know. He told me I always seemed interesting, but didn't really talk to me because of that. We gave eachother our numbers, but I donno if I should call him first.

He seemed interested, I think. I don't know. Helllp? D:

Call me instead

call him ........

Really? Should I just ask him if he wants to hang out this comming weekend or something?


I feel really stupid because I have no common sense on this subject anymore unless if I'm trying to help someone else out.

I would wait for him to call first but that's just me.

doesn't hurt to call him first and keep it casual

If you are both kinda shy, and you like him, make the first move and call him. Hopefully it works out for both of you.

(((yellowrose)))

Call him, but just take it slow

Alright, thank you both for the points of advice. :]

@Patsfan- I would. Lol, I don't like to rush into things personally.

(((rara))))

If he is not interested, don't worry. If he is, more power to ya. I wouldn't count on anything until it is official though.

Thank you Rara. :]

Thank you Rara. :] That helps.

the best advice you can get is what you would give out to others IMO. what would you be telling someone else in this situation?

Well if it seems you both have the same problem with talking why not send him a text saying hi ect and tell him to call you if he is not busy never know till you try. But seems to me with both being shy your both waiting on the other to take a step so take one and have him make the actually call. Hummmm worth a try..........

Well yeah, I know. I'm not love struck or anything.


@yellowrose- I would probably tell them to call, and keep it casual because no one likes it when someone comes on to strong to quick.

i will help ypu with your anti social problem call ME and we will get through this together lol

then you have your answer. when you give advice to others....it comes from the heart and mind. you deserve to get the same kind of advice.

well ma, i got no words as u knwo my situation..ahha...but too bad you are in MN..maybe move to NY...lol...good luck though...any man would be lucky to have you...be careful though...

@txsgal3333- I would text him, but I lost my cell phone on my grad-party type thing so I only have my house phone at the moment. It sucks.


racerx767- lol, that's funny.