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How do you guys decide whether to accept or deny someone's instant
messenger? What if you're not interested in that person? I'll add ANYONE as friends. |
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if i've never heard from them, and their profile only says "intimate
encounter", then they aren't worth my time. i'm not here to date, let alone cyber. |
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ill accept the instant messege but if they seem sketch ill just cut it
off lol |
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LOL I knot that's right.
I always get instant messengers from the oddest people haha! I won't add someone as a friend if they're just seeking intimate encounters either because it sends the wrong message |
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lol, yeah, accept at first and if you don't like them then just click my
friend, the "ignore" or "block" button. |
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LOL sororitygurl! I do that sometimes too.
Ahh yes! The luxury of online dating |
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I wouldnt accept if they didnt at least email me first. I wont accept
friends that dont email me first either. 
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why cant people be nice enough to return messages? thats what i want to
know |
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I've found that in most cases it's a bunch of people who want cyber sex
that IM me, but i still give everyone a chance... Then when I see where it is going I just close it out. I had a guy I talked to a little while on here....seemed friendly enough and wanted me to call him, so I did and wasn't on the phone 5 mins and he was wanting phone sex, I hung up and "lost" the number. |
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LOL pass!
Hosea I dunno. I personally try to get back to every person who sends me email BUT unfortunately many times they can't take a hint that you are being courteous and NOT at all interested. |
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i wouldnt mind if i got a letter saying that they wernt interested,
thats better than just ignoring people. i would thank them and be on my way |
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I usually accept them. Sometimes good and sometimes bad. When its a
young guy looking for cyber stuff. I just tell him he needs to move on and not waste either of or time. |
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haha I wish everyone would do what you do..some keep at it
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im not even looking to hook up, i just want someone to talk to. i didnt
think its alot to ask for, but i guess it is |
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umm Ive never been messeged;(
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aww
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I'll accept, but then again I love messin with people.
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I turned the instant message feature off.
Drove me nuts...I dont come to this site to meet the 'One' ....reality check...I am 10 000 miles away.. And my profile says that..didn't matter, I kind of wondered if there was a literacy challenge, or something... 
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I dont get IMs...I turned them off, my computer is a POS and I dont need
anything else slowing it down. I accept ANYONE as a friend But I take them off they dont respect that I am TAKEN |
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LOL Jess literacy test haha
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