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I'm with the OP. I am not impressed by friend collectors. I have deleted my name from people's friend lists who had hundreds of friends. I want my friendship to mean something to someone! I don't want to just be one of the many. I am selective about who I add to my list also. I don't accept every friend request that comes my way. My friends are people I talk to regularly. Well, those who I chat with, email with know that I'm friend with them, I rather think of the friends' list as a nice gesture, perhaps interested or like me somewhat, kinda like a first stepping stone. Works better than the "match with this person". |
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I also like having an equal amount of girlie friends to guy friends.
I like the women I have met on Mingle, and I don't necessarily want a big 'ol sausage-fest on my profile!  I only add those that chat with me on the forums or that give a rat's azzzzz about how I am -- and that I care about their welfare as well. Willy-nilly friend adding is like drunk typing! Just say no! |
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most of my friends on here, i either talk to or have in the past , and if it was often in the past, but not lately i leave them on because ive had meaningful words with them and would like to in the future...other ones i weed through like every 6 months... humm reminds me its about due.. you know the ones that emailed 2 short emails and you never got to know them? those i take off...
thats just my reasonings, everyone has different reasons so honestly its none of no ones business how many friends you have or dont have... its your choice... |
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I also like having an equal amount of girlie friends to guy friends. I like the women I have met on Mingle, and I don't necessarily want a big 'ol sausage-fest on my profile! I only add those that chat with me on the forums or that give a rat's azzzzz about how I am -- and that I care about their welfare as well. Willy-nilly friend adding is like drunk typing! Just say no! I have to admit..I don't have a sausage fest on my profile..it's a different kind of a "fest"...although I do talk to guys here in emails about guns, politics and girls. |
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I also like having an equal amount of girlie friends to guy friends. I like the women I have met on Mingle, and I don't necessarily want a big 'ol sausage-fest on my profile! I only add those that chat with me on the forums or that give a rat's azzzzz about how I am -- and that I care about their welfare as well. Willy-nilly friend adding is like drunk typing! Just say no! Same here...I have a lot of girls as friends on my list. And I really value their friendships! |
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ps i dont think you have too many friends
 not that its my business but im not ridiculing you.... dang ive been here way too long!
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guns, politics and girls. Sounds like a party to me! 
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poof !!! im going deleting....
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ps i dont think you have too many friends not that its my business but im not ridiculing you.... dang ive been here way too long! Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Tue 06/30/09 07:38 PM
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double post
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poof !!! im going deleting.... 
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poof !!! im going deleting.... Mitch, I have always been suspicious of your friends list. Let me see it NOW!!!! |
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ps i dont think you have too many friends not that its my business but im not ridiculing you.... dang ive been here way too long! Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many. 
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they dont know and they are trying to control you already by suggesting you have too many friends?
im done deleting now.... took off 7 people... i would never delete my pet!
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poof !!! im going deleting.... Mitch, I have always been suspicious of your friends list. Let me see it NOW!!!! No! And you can't make me. It's a secret because the list is too short. It's embarrassing. 
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No, don't do it, don't delete meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..............
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poof !!! im going deleting.... Mitch, I have always been suspicious of your friends list. Let me see it NOW!!!! No! And you can't make me. It's a secret because the list is too short. It's embarrassing. I could make you. But I won't 
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ps i dont think you have too many friends not that its my business but im not ridiculing you.... dang ive been here way too long! Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many.
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Ok, how about "you've been here too long". Does that make me suspicious ? Mingle2 is unlike myspace or facebook, those aren't like having a discussion forum. Many people treat mingle2 like 'yahoo personals' or 'match.com'. Basically, some might think, hanging around too long on a dating site makes some think that I might be something like a 'social reject" ? Why worry so much about what others think? If you enjoy the site and the forums, stay. Don't worry about what someone says. |
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ps i dont think you have too many friends not that its my business but im not ridiculing you.... dang ive been here way too long! Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many. I know how to view people's friends lists that are not showing. Easy peasy. |
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