Topic: single father of 1
alchmey2009's photo
Mon 06/29/09 11:36 PM
yeah i know its hard being a father when teh woman i have a kid with is a real piece of work. okay ladies let me ask you this if a man offers to help you when you have his kid but you are not together aint been in years. would you turn down his help because you have expensive taste and you needed the help more than you could ever admit to.i mean no money in the bank and rent is due dont have a job and barely any food type of bad.

alright look this is whats up
my daughter mom
calls me from a desk phone at some office she went to and asked me to help her out by getting her a phone well i was going to give her a prepaid cell phone with a ezpay contract well too make a long story short she turned my help away because i refused to buy her an iphone touch.mean while she has no phone no money to pay a bill and she is woried about a damn iphone that dont make a bit of sense to me.

Winx's photo
Mon 06/29/09 11:49 PM
Edited by Winx on Mon 06/29/09 11:52 PM
It doesn't make sense to me either.

There's a saying: Beggars can't be choosy.

The prepaid cell phone is a good idea to me.





writer_gurl's photo
Mon 06/29/09 11:49 PM
She was not being fair at allgrumble ...When you have nothing the littlest help would be great:smile: Let her sweat it out a little and see if she refuses help again

Italy0219's photo
Mon 06/29/09 11:51 PM

yeah i know its hard being a father when teh woman i have a kid with is a real piece of work. okay ladies let me ask you this if a man offers to help you when you have his kid but you are not together aint been in years. would you turn down his help because you have expensive taste and you needed the help more than you could ever admit to.i mean no money in the bank and rent is due dont have a job and barely any food type of bad.

alright look this is whats up
my daughter mom
calls me from a desk phone at some office she went to and asked me to help her out by getting her a phone well i was going to give her a prepaid cell phone with a ezpay contract well too make a long story short she turned my help away because i refused to buy her an iphone touch.mean while she has no phone no money to pay a bill and she is woried about a damn iphone that dont make a bit of sense to me.


Yeah, she's messsed up. Be careful, use your common sense with her.

agbbieannie's photo
Tue 06/30/09 12:20 AM
You picked her to make a baby with...................Oh wellflowerforyou

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:37 AM
The word selfish comes to mind concernin her. I'd be exstatic if my son's fathers' offered to help in the least bit. shades

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 07/01/09 11:13 AM
K, so, good thing you arent together anymore.

I phone touch?


She found you, maybe she can find another man to get her one.


I dont think your obligated.


Good luck.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/01/09 12:04 PM
This is a worry

Worry bout the baby and only the baby!!

mysmedic67's photo
Wed 07/01/09 03:24 PM
I am a single mom and have never I repeat never had even an offfer of help from my sons father. I think it is awesome you want to help, but dont get taken to the cleaner, you can provide for your daughter without handing over riduculas costing gadgets, or money. any cell phone will call 911 for free. Dont need an Iphone.. buy for your daughter specifically, if she needs shoes take her and go shopping, if she needs diapers buy the diapers, school fees go directly to the school and pay them, do not give mom cash.( unless of course it is court ordered)
if she is that bad off she will take what is offered and be grateful, if not she is greedy and will teach your daughter to be greedy. dont let that happen. you are going to be a good influence on your girl,,, so keep it up
Your girl is first priority! dont let mom run you in circles....
Good Luck