have you really gotten over yours yet??????

honestly, no but it hasnt been that long either.

I was married for 10 years and it took me about a year to get over him,
I still have thoughts of him but it doesnt last to long knowing all the
shit he did. I am so THANKFUL I opened my eyes and left.

how long has it been?

shagna.... will u get married again??

i was getting over mine while i was figuring out that me being the only
one trying to work things out. once i left her she was in the past

We had a off and on again type of thing, He got into drugs and that is
one thing I would not stand for. I left him for good and didnt turn
around a little over a year and a half ago. I made sure there was no
contact at all with the kids or I, He called me a few months ago wanting
to come home, I laughed and said NO WAY! I think it was my test to see
if I was done. I am and there is no way I would ever go back to him.
As far as getting remarried that is so far from my mind right now, I am
having a hard of enough time just meeting people to go out on dates
with.
I will not say never but it will have to be one special man.

I THINK SHAG WOULD GO OUT WITH ME IF I LIVED CLOSER!

Humm ya think???

UMM.... MAYBE.

hahaha yeap maybe~ Not looking for anymore buddies though darlin so keep
thinking!! :O)~

BUMMER... OK!

Damn shag thats rough stuff..I could say im def over mine and its great
we are such good friends now.. I know im young but we were together for
3 years

What do you mean rough stuff? What I delt with or how I handled it by
making sure there was no contact?

what you delt with dont get it twisted

I didnt get it twisted, that is why I asked. Sometimes we dont always
understand what is said and take it wrong that is why I ask. Yes it was
hell I can tell horror stories about it, but it is in my past and I
learned a lot and grown so it was a learning experience for me. I now
help others in the same situation to help them know there is a way out.

The way you handled it is really something..good for you

you can most definatly pat yourself on the back for that

Thank you, To bad you are so young and far away, You are a doll darlin.
lol

lmao yeah too bad...