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I know some of us women have met some jerks out there, whether online or off. I know I am a good woman and I had my bad choices of men and I know in my heart that I can hold out on sex if I really want to. Do you men go through the same thing us women go through when it comes to women and dating. I heard some of you say you went on some great dates and the person was great, but what made you don't want to get to know the person more. Another thing, Can you men hold out on sex, because I just can't seen to believe you can hold out on sex and that you have to alway have it. I know there are some women out there that are the same way. I am 39 yrs old and I have not really dated in my life and when I say I am new to this then I mean I am new to this dating. I never really took my time to get to know the person and taking it slow is very new. I am really learning some things about myself and I am learning what a man is really looking for in a woman. I have found myself trying to be something I was not just to win a man approval and I am learning just to be myself. Right now, I do need to change my attitude toward men and the list goes on. It is new to me to withhold sex until you get to know that person and I am telling you it is not easy. Not to me anyway. Thanks for your comments.
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I know some of us women have met some jerks out there, whether online or off. I know I am a good woman and I had my bad choices of men and I know in my heart that I can hold out on sex if I really want to. Do you men go through the same thing us women go through when it comes to women and dating. I heard some of you say you went on some great dates and the person was great, but what made you don't want to get to know the person more. Another thing, Can you men hold out on sex, because I just can't seen to believe you can hold out on sex and that you have to alway have it. I know there are some women out there that are the same way. I am 39 yrs old and I have not really dated in my life and when I say I am new to this then I mean I am new to this dating. I never really took my time to get to know the person and taking it slow is very new. I am really learning some things about myself and I am learning what a man is really looking for in a woman. I have found myself trying to be something I was not just to win a man approval and I am learning just to be myself. Right now, I do need to change my attitude toward men and the list goes on. It is new to me to withhold sex until you get to know that person and I am telling you it is not easy. Not to me anyway. Thanks for your comments. Most men are dumazzez about women because all they know of love and sexuality come from failed relationships and television shows and movies |
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It's real easy.
The ability to respect others stem from self-respect. Your level of self-respect will generally determine the quality of the mates you select. Take responsibility and examine the relationship you have with yourself. Having a higher power involved usually helps, so long as some self-righteous dumba** with a book isn't trying to tell you how to live. JMHO Good luck Bry |
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it's harder dating when you get older...the men and probably women too, are so used to being f*cked over by the users, liars and cheaters they hook up with it's hard for them to remember how to love or let their minds go and accept being loved
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