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Topic: Flirting......
papersmile's photo
Sun 06/21/09 08:10 AM
Edited by papersmile on Sun 06/21/09 08:11 AM

As anyone who has been on here for any length of time knows, I am a TOTAL flirt....I have no problem flirting with the guys in here...or the ladies!!! I am straight and let people know that I am, and that I am engaged.

Does anyone have a problem with flirting with members of the same sex?? Are you afraid that someone will think you are gay and try to avoid you???

If they avoid me, then they weren't worth my time......


i like to flirt with my partner, and only my partner. i'm not interested in the affections - be them just friendly and silly - of another, nor am i interested in awarding someone besides him any of my own playful romantic attention. he has my entire interest.

also, it wouldn't make me feel very good to see him bantering with other woman, especially using the same words that he uses on me. if i don't think i'd like it, neither would i do that to someone else.

however, i don't mind joking around with my women friends such as 'eileen you look awfully hot today' (THAT wasn't a joke by the way smitten )

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Sun 06/21/09 08:17 AM
I don't tend to flirt, mostly 'cause, well, I am so lame at it!:tongue:

I agree that most of the flrting done here is joking, good natured in spirit, but, if at anytime it embarrasses someone or makes them uncomfortable, then out of respect for their wishes I think it should stop.

misstina2's photo
Sun 06/21/09 08:22 AM


As anyone who has been on here for any length of time knows, I am a TOTAL flirt....I have no problem flirting with the guys in here...or the ladies!!! I am straight and let people know that I am, and that I am engaged.

Does anyone have a problem with flirting with members of the same sex?? Are you afraid that someone will think you are gay and try to avoid you???

If they avoid me, then they weren't worth my time......


i like to flirt with my partner, and only my partner. i'm not interested in the affections - be them just friendly and silly - of another, nor am i interested in awarding someone besides him any of my own playful romantic attention. he has my entire interest.

also, it wouldn't make me feel very good to see him bantering with other woman, especially using the same words that he uses on me. if i don't think i'd like it, neither would i do that to someone else.

however, i don't mind joking around with my women friends such as 'eileen you look awfully hot today' (THAT wasn't a joke by the way smitten )
flowerforyou I'm in agreement with this line of thinkngflowerforyou

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 06/21/09 08:32 AM
ahhhhhhhhhh flirting what is that......... :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: Eileen and I have been flirting with each other for a long time now. I just wonder if she ever told the Captain that I am going on the honeymoon with them.tongue2 tongue2

rara777's photo
Sun 06/21/09 09:32 AM

As anyone who has been on here for any length of time knows, I am a TOTAL flirt....I have no problem flirting with the guys in here...or the ladies!!! I am straight and let people know that I am, and that I am engaged.

Does anyone have a problem with flirting with members of the same sex?? Are you afraid that someone will think you are gay and try to avoid you???

If they avoid me, then they weren't worth my time......


rofl Heck Eileena. I live in your closet and have a great time there.rofl

:laughing: There is nothing like having a home away from home.:laughing:

rofl By the way, sorry I didn`t do the dishes and the vacuuming yesterday. I was busy.:wink: rofl

rara777's photo
Sun 06/21/09 09:33 AM

ahhhhhhhhhh flirting what is that......... :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: Eileen and I have been flirting with each other for a long time now. I just wonder if she ever told the Captain that I am going on the honeymoon with them.tongue2 tongue2


smitten Hey snuggles ya got room for one more? After all I do live in Eileenas closet.smitten

oldsage's photo
Sun 06/21/09 09:39 AM
I am one of the "oldest" flirts here. Flirt with a guy, "SURE BIG BOY"....just keep your hands at home.:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Flirting is one of the perks of this place.


Where else can a guy my age "safely" flirt with all that arm candy out there.love love pitchfork pitchfork drool drool oops offtopic slaphead :thumbsup: :thumbsup: flowers flowers flowers

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Sun 06/21/09 09:53 AM

As anyone who has been on here for any length of time knows, I am a TOTAL flirt....I have no problem flirting with the guys in here...or the ladies!!! I am straight and let people know that I am, and that I am engaged.

Does anyone have a problem with flirting with members of the same sex?? Are you afraid that someone will think you are gay and try to avoid you???

If they avoid me, then they weren't worth my time......


I've got no problem with it at all. I also think most people here are fine with it.. except for a few that are too uptight.

rara777's photo
Sun 06/21/09 09:56 AM

I am one of the "oldest" flirts here. Flirt with a guy, "SURE BIG BOY"....just keep your hands at home.:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Flirting is one of the perks of this place.


Where else can a guy my age "safely" flirt with all that arm candy out there.love love pitchfork pitchfork drool drool oops offtopic slaphead :thumbsup: :thumbsup: flowers flowers flowers


rofl rofl I`m with ya on this one rofl rofl

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Sun 06/21/09 09:58 AM
It depends on the nature of the flirting Eileena.
Some is meant to get you in someone's pants.
Some is meant to get a rise.
Sime is meant to invoke question.


To me FLIRTING is an extention of complimenting someone on a positive attribute that I see in them and that I want to make known is working for them.

FLIRT = COMPLIMENT


And I have NO problem with anyone from either gender flirting with me!

oldsage's photo
Sun 06/21/09 10:02 AM
Well, I'd flirt with you, just so I could hear that giggle "for real". Definate "arm candy" there.

(close to my age, ta boot)

flowers flowers drool pitchfork slaphead :thumbsup:

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Sun 06/21/09 10:05 AM

Well, I'd flirt with you, just so I could hear that giggle "for real". Definate "arm candy" there.

(close to my age, ta boot)

flowers flowers drool pitchfork slaphead :thumbsup:




Careful, Sage...I've known this gal for over two years...she will definitely talk your "arm candy" off! :wink: laugh

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/21/09 10:11 AM


As anyone who has been on here for any length of time knows, I am a TOTAL flirt....I have no problem flirting with the guys in here...or the ladies!!! I am straight and let people know that I am, and that I am engaged.

Does anyone have a problem with flirting with members of the same sex?? Are you afraid that someone will think you are gay and try to avoid you???

If they avoid me, then they weren't worth my time......


i like to flirt with my partner, and only my partner. i'm not interested in the affections - be them just friendly and silly - of another, nor am i interested in awarding someone besides him any of my own playful romantic attention. he has my entire interest.

also, it wouldn't make me feel very good to see him bantering with other woman, especially using the same words that he uses on me. if i don't think i'd like it, neither would i do that to someone else.

however, i don't mind joking around with my women friends such as 'eileen you look awfully hot today' (THAT wasn't a joke by the way smitten )


I completely agree with this!

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Sun 06/21/09 10:12 AM

Well, I'd flirt with you, just so I could hear that giggle "for real". Definate "arm candy" there.

(close to my age, ta boot)

flowers flowers drool pitchfork slaphead :thumbsup:


"Arm Candy", huh?!? laugh
Close to your age even, huh?!? huh

Wanna wrestle?! I'll even use my broken arm!! hehehehhehehee winking

HiHo Silver! Away!! :laughing:

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Sun 06/21/09 10:17 AM
Flirting is healthy, to a point,and fun.
I think everyone on here does it,to a limit,depending on your comfort zone.
flowerforyou

rara777's photo
Sun 06/21/09 10:22 AM
flowerforyou love :heart: smooched (((2KidsMom)))smooched :heart: love flowerforyou

Good afternoon my dear.smooched flowerforyou

eileena9's photo
Sun 06/21/09 10:23 AM
Hi everyone.....I have to make this quick....I have to get to work....


I agree that if a person doesn't feel that they are okay with flirting, whether in a relationship or not, that is certainly their choice and their right. I only do it with people who know it is a joke, and so does Jon, so we are both okay with it. (He is a salesman....flirting is part of his sales pitch).

But if you are uncomfortable with it, thank you for letting us know this way we know not to tell you how freaking hot you look todaylaugh :wink: ...even if you do look good!

Have a great day everyone. especially you Fathers and Mothers acting as fathers, on this Father's Day!!!flowers flowers flowers flowers

rara777's photo
Sun 06/21/09 10:25 AM
devil devil devil smooched (((Eileena)))smooched devil devil devil

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Sun 06/21/09 10:27 AM
Thanks Eileena!
I fall into the latter of your wishes.

TheCaptain's photo
Sun 06/21/09 12:49 PM
devil devil devil smooched ((((RARA))))smooched devil devil devil

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