Topic: Kinda sad..kinda confused.. | |
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..Met this seemingly cool guy online. Emailed each other back and forth
for about 1 month...he got busy with work this week and I haven't heard from him in 3 days...any thoughts? Men in particular, if you have any comments feel free to let me in on a 'the mind of a man'.. |
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Aww Maybe he's just really busy at work. Have you asked him when you
contacted him. I hope it works out. |
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Since you already know his schedule is hectic, he'll get back to you
after it cools down |
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Don't know his schedule...his last email was saying he wasn't sure when
he would check his email...and I know he mentioned b4 that he was moving today...so maybe he got busy with that too..=o/ |
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Hmmm.
Could be busy, have you noticed any change in the emails? Give the guy an email. If he reponds ,Okay if not? Move on! |
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Weird, I tell myself..not to think and obsess about it so much...fear is
a serious thing..I guess this is showing me I have alot to work on internally. |
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well berry, ive met some very sweet people online, with my job i work
long hours sometimes cant get back to people that ive chatted too for awhile.sometimes its hard to reply n message back etc ,feel like an asshole not respondin at times but sometimes its not by choice etc. |
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Hi boredchick, posion...yea Ima maybe wait till this weekend to send him
a email.. |
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that's a good idea :)
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Yah, I can somewhat relate to the work schedule thing too seahawk..but
really I guess I over exert my efforts with those I feel closer to |
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why don't you swap numbers?
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i wouldnt get to tied up with them if its just emails.... until ya meet
then maybe... but pretty much its a waste of time in that sort... |
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hmm, good question, he never asked for my number..so I didn't feel
comfortable to ask for his..maybe he just wanted to say somewhat dettached...ooh boy |
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I always believe in gut instinct........... whatever you are feeling
deep inside....., go with that best wishes to you |
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lol berry i think we really make dating hard on ourselves.. but my
advice send him an email be straight up i mean dont send him 40 but just be like " hey i was thinking about you, heres my number give me a call i may not be online that much" and in erality you could be sitting there all day but if he calls then .. no loss.. and if he doesn't hes got your number for future reference.. i mean really its a win win situation.. lol |
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thanks buttons, you have a point! I just got out of a real serious
relationship couple months back and jumped into the online dating thing...waay too prematurely |
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Hi Hun.
Not many Like my Input Because sometimes Im too Honest. All I can say Is I mean well when I speak. If a Man loves you or desires you he will do all it takes to show It. Hugs |
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thanks mtironroses and sororitygurl. yea, if I don't hear from the guy
by this weekend, Ima email...not sure about the number thing, lol...kinda old fashion..if he really wants it he'd ask..I guess |
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Ya know boomhower, you are right! Very right. Cuz thats the type person
I am...is it wrong, selfish, immature to expect the same in return...'you reap, what you sow' |
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XOXO You guys, thanks to those who responded..now bed time! everyone is
up so late!...But Ima head to bed now. night. Blessings! |
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