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Topic: If you woke up one day
Jess642's photo
Tue 06/23/09 03:25 AM

I think I see what Jess means. I'll share this much. I try to keep a cap for the most part on this part of my life but....


After my husband died, just within a couple of weeks, I remember walking through our new house, big house, new furniture etc. I walked from room to room. Into the dining room that I FINALLY had and had wanted for many years to be able to have friends over with more room. Looked into my china cabinet...walked in all the rooms and just thought...it's over. None of this matters, means anything without him. Nothing money could have bought, nothing money Had bought healed my heart in that moment. I have always been a basic person with regard to material things. But in that moment, I knew, for sure what was the most important thing in life.


:heart: yes........thankyou, beautiful:cry: flowerforyou

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Tue 06/23/09 03:30 AM
Edited by Tracker_Ar on Tue 06/23/09 03:36 AM

I think I see what Jess means. I'll share this much. I try to keep a cap for the most part on this part of my life but....


After my husband died, just within a couple of weeks, I remember walking through our new house, big house, new furniture etc. I walked from room to room. Into the dining room that I FINALLY had and had wanted for many years to be able to have friends over with more room. Looked into my china cabinet...walked in all the rooms and just thought...it's over. None of this matters, means anything without him. Nothing money could have bought, nothing money Had bought healed my heart in that moment. I have always been a basic person with regard to material things. But in that moment, I knew, for sure what was the most important thing in life.

Well spoken. Thank you for another good insight into the topic.
Sorry about your husband. I think you raise another good point though, companionship could also be a need. I don't mean companionship in peddy way, but in the true since of the word. Like what you spoke of Auburn and don't get me wrong I agree with you too Jess. Thanks to both of you for taking this seriously.flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/23/09 03:34 AM
Jess flowerforyou

Tracker, thank you. I think companionship is definitely a need. I don't believe we were created to be alone. And certainly, at that time in my life, (10 yrs ago last week) I certainly ached for it.

adj4u's photo
Tue 06/23/09 03:35 AM

If you woke up one day and found that you suddenly had everything that you could possiably need what would be the first thing you would do?what


i would smile and enjoy a pain free day

but i don't think they do brain transplants yet

as this ol' body moans and groans

and rattles and shakes



longhairbiker's photo
Tue 06/23/09 03:38 AM
I wake up greatful every morning. Could use a little more piece of mind and peace of mind, but hey I'm not greedy, just greatful.

adj4u's photo
Tue 06/23/09 03:58 AM

I wake up greatful every morning. Could use a little more piece of mind and peace of mind, but hey I'm not greedy, just greatful.


be careful what you wish for

there are a few that enjoy giving a piece of their mind

drinker laugh laugh


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Tue 06/23/09 09:47 AM
Same as I always do..........have 10 cups of teadrinker

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 06/23/09 09:48 AM
Get naked & make some phone calls

Easysteve's photo
Tue 06/23/09 09:49 AM
share it with someone special..what's the fun in keeping it all to yourself!

darkowl1's photo
Tue 06/23/09 09:53 AM
i'm the most blessed on this planet, and i use this blessing to help others....i'm strong, i'm obligated, and it's a joy to do:heart:


oh, and protect the weaker while listening to beachboys musiclaugh

darkowl1's photo
Tue 06/23/09 09:54 AM

Get naked & make some phone calls



that's funny!rofl

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/23/09 10:18 AM

If you woke up one day and found that you suddenly had everything that you could possiably need what would be the first thing you would do?what


get some coffee to make sure I wasn't dreaming

TxsSun's photo
Tue 06/23/09 10:29 AM

screw it up somehow :tongue:



Me too laugh

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 06/23/09 11:12 AM

If you woke up one day and found that you suddenly had everything that you could possiably need what would be the first thing you would do?what


Roll over and go back to sleep because that is the one thing I never get enough of.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 06/23/09 11:13 AM
id hop out da bed and turn my swag on :banana:

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