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Topic: When is it over?
FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 06/22/09 03:19 PM





And I dont mean the relationship

I mean the idea of having one.

Like...when do you say to yourself,

"All right, I'm done and I am staying single"


When nothing works regardless of how many different avenues you try, eventually the realization that you cannot be in a relationship without screwing something up becomes obvious...then you start eating past dates and burying them under your...oops...


Fear, I truly worry about you sometimes. You are too young to be so jaded. Go outside right this minute, take a huge deep breath and release. Do it a few more times. Oxygen is great for the mind.flowerforyou


I don't need someone, and at this point in my life I don't want someone. I'm perfectly fine alone, well...I'm emotionally fine anyway...


You can use your "friend" card whenever you need it you know. I'm only a few key strokes away. Life really is more beautiful when you are open to it.


I'm very open to life and I'm always learning, I just don't see the correlation between life and the necessity of having someone in it. No one needs anyone in their life, you can sustain life perfectly fine without someone else. I'm open to life, I don't see why a relationship is needed in order to be open to life.

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 06/22/09 03:28 PM
When I need to take time, and focus on myself, and do some work on myself.

I try my best to never "look" for someone, but I put myself out there to leave open the opportunity.


I try to stay single always, until I cannot deny someone, and it feels worthwhile after knowing someone to indulge in the exchange of deeper love, and a real respect, and a committed relationship.

Anyway, dating, and seeing whoever is fun until that may occour.


Relationships can be such a hassle anyway.

Jhavez's photo
Mon 06/22/09 11:15 PM
It is not over till "the FATMAN sings"

Unless you plan to not meet another person for the rest of your life, well then maybe it is.

no photo
Tue 06/23/09 12:04 AM

And I dont mean the relationship

I mean the idea of having one.

Like...when do you say to yourself,

"All right, I'm done and I am staying single"


I dunno... when you figure you've had enough of the run-arounds, the drama, the holier-than-thou attitude, and the lack-of-respect, I guess.

no photo
Tue 06/23/09 12:26 AM


And I dont mean the relationship

I mean the idea of having one.

Like...when do you say to yourself,

"All right, I'm done and I am staying single"


I dunno... when you figure you've had enough of the run-arounds, the drama, the holier-than-thou attitude, and the lack-of-respect, I guess.


WOW you said it all for me.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 06/23/09 12:28 AM
:tongue: when your ex says they will sue you for child support if you meet someone elselaugh

AdventureBegins's photo
Tue 06/23/09 12:38 AM
When they say its over... No sense in hanging round where your not wanted.

Far as games run a rounds and no respectors...

Real good reason to go slow and learn to know.

Once bitten... Peepers open... warning beepers fully engaged.

Only the aware make it through.

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