Like im tired of shitty relationships but than again i want someone you know? but heres the other thing, its fun to be single. Its so confusing like i cant figure it out.
And i think this thread was meant to be for dating and relationships?
sorry im new to this =] my mistake

Then you are not ready to date yet. Take your time and just relax. You'll know when the time is right.

I guess so. Im just taking it slow right now. Because if im not sure than i guess thats telling me the answer to just take it sloww

Exactly. You'll know when you're ready because the doubt will be gone. Good luck to you.

There is nothing wrong with learning to enjoy the life we are given by yourself. Loneliness is actually a mind set, not a physical condition.

After spending some time on your own you may actually be more ready for the next relationship and it may help you make a better choice on who you pick next time.

I have found the time by myself has made me see some of the mistakes I was making in choosing men. Some of the issues I have came to the surface and it helped me work through them.

Hope this helps.

Good luck.

Me too. And, it wasn't an overnight thing. It was a long drawn out process. But, well worth it.

Self discovery, analysis and resolution is one of the hardest things we all do but it helps a whole lot. We really don't do it when we have relationships to distract us from it.

So alone time is necessary to get there.

The very fact that you ask this question, tells me you're confused and not sure about yourself. I mean you're not sure of being single or starting a relationship.

My advice is, take your time to decide. Do not be in any hurry. Time itself will tell you when its right for you to start a relationship.

okay thanks for the advice guys it was very helpful and i agree.

At your age give it lots more time even at my age at times I doubt if I want to be single or not but then that thought passes and I go on with my life...

Do what I do and sit in a hole planning world domination, doesn't really help or anything...actually the planning is all but wasted in the long-run because inevitably I won't be able to find the right size of crystal for my laser...but it passes the time pretty well.

go hang with your girlfriends and laugh and just enjoy life for a while. Its just to short to go after relationship after relationship. Find friends on here to talk to, build a little dignity, and be your own independent person. Take care and do have fun.

You're young,an have your whole life a head of you.
Take time to know yourself.
Get your goals in order,an find you first.
The rest will come,just use the brain first.
It's a tough world,an you know it!

It's like the ol' saying goes-

If you're not sure if you should be doing something, then you probably shouldn't do it.

Listen to mellow guy

why rush thing's ????
enjoy your youth....
because before you know it 20yrs have past !
so,enjoy your youth and have fun damn it !

My mama always said I should play the field......


But I never did.....I was stuck in these long drawn out "relationships" that basically ****ed up my mind, heart and soul.

all good advice thanks =[ and you guys are right.
i still have a lot of time and i mean i have had my share of relationships- bad ones and i guess now i rather just enjoy my life with my friends and relationship wise: just wiat and see what happenes. thanks

What up Joliet ??? Lockport here ;) Nice photos

Its not so bad being single tho