Probably chucking the fairy tale idea and picking people with a little less defined "Type" might help. Usually more moderate people make for a less dramatic life; includeing the disappointments. Real realationships take time.

"I've always been the "unique" one. Actually my name is Shalaria and that's what that means".

< ----- Phule says: "To thine own self be true". Be who you are little one, think positively and never settle for anything less than what you want from life. You are still young and have a long and fruitful life ahead of you. You ARE the master of your own destiny. Now go do it!

I can agree with that. Mellow may be boring sometimes, but beats the hell out of drama. Now that I'm a little older and a lot wiser I'll take mellow any day of the week over everything else.

actually, I have to say that I don't lean toward a certain type of guy or type... but thanks anyway... I like mellow... I HATE DRAMA!!! end of story

Hello i am new here:) Why is so hard to have a relation in this day ? I mean why mans wants to own you but in the mean time they want they freedom.I will tell you my story i hade a long distant relation whit a guy everthing was like in a dream ,every day speaking on the phone,and when finaly i spend a week whit him it was lovely but when we went out for a party it was a disaster,i mean he was al the time gone and his friends came to me asking where he is and i didint know finaly i get tired waiting for him i started to speak and dance whit other guy. Oh that was my big mistake i think because after that he saw that i was dancing whit another guy he didint even say a word to me al night but he was chatting whit a lot of women in that night anyway the end whe we had a fight because of that he told me : What was i thinking when i danced whit that guy i was selfish because i didint care WHAT WILL THINK HIS FRIENDS and i am not that important for him to be jealous auch ...:(.Oke this is just a example
example cruel mans can be.Can you help me just answering one quetion Did i do something wrong dancing whit a another guy,and the mean time he was flirting whit all the girls in the club?

Be true to yourself and don't take yourself for granted. I know where you are coming from. Someday, when you least expect it, your "night in shining armor" will be there. Good luck and keep your chin up. God intented for all of us to be happy!