I don't think that's a lot to ask. I agree this site is not just about dating and finding someone. The forums are great and I've made a ton of friends. But, if I wanted to make sure the man was at ease by simply getting off of a dating site, and he and I were serious, I'd do it. I confess!! It would bother me if I had a fellow who insisted on staying on dating sites. It is not even so much about him going after others, but others putting themselves in front of him. And, from experience, I can say that there are a lot of negative people who don't want others to be happy or have no qualms about trying to break up a relationship.
If you have REAL FRIENDS on here, you have them offline as well. The guy is real and his comfort should be considered. It's not an outrageous request. Ya'll can go on and on about "If he trusted me he wouldn't ask....", but it's OKAY to feel somewhat insecure!!!


DITTO

Nope. I'm addicted to Mingle.

Hopefully you meet someone who is a little more secure than that.

I DONT THINK IT SHOULD EVEN BE ASKED, YOU SHOULD JUST DO IT (NIKE) LOL

I am thinking I had rather be alone...not sure I am ready for all that anyhow...

i'm not meeting someone off a dating site EVER AGAIN

Like I said he has never asked and I don't feel that he would ever do that

1. So you are a mind reader? 2. but you would, if he asked? You would shut down a whole part of your life with friends for some d1ckwad guy? 3. This fits into my New Theory of Women!

LIAR...you wanted the little Mexican jailbird just one day this week...

When you are here I quote

i feel your pain ed

and what theory might that be darlin...

Actually TB I am not a mind reader, second I really don't think he would ever ask so would I or wouldn't I. I did the whole just down part of my life once and I would never do it again. If my guy felt threatened in anyway I guess I would have to talk to him, explain that I understand his feelings, reassure him nothing but friendships were going on and continue to do as I please.

I could not but conditions on him so why should I allow him to put conditions on me.

Yes I do know that I said I would if he asked but after further thought of it I came to the above conclusion

A theory so subtle yet excellent at predicting behavior, when a married friend of mine told his wife about it, she got mad and stormed about and admitted that it perfectly explained her behavior!!

so you assume we all act alike

Way to easy....

your killing me today.

P.S. I am stalking you...

Not at all, psychology theories are rules of thumb. This is were the art comes into play, you have to have someone who actually knows what they are doing on a case by case basis, but as a framework...

I dont care what any woman or man says. All women are very similiar, yes we all have differences but we are all similar. Same thing with men.

Excellent... Your boyfriend sounds like he is a really neat guy, I would like to me him one day.