If someone I love, who loves me, felt uncomfortable, I would do it. I would expect the same in kind. Dating sites are primarily for dating. Jealousy is part of a relationship to a degree at times. Why cause more grief?

I would hope that the person would understand that I have many friends here

well i am pursuing a realtionship with someone on this site, we have talked about it, but we met thru mingle so i would never want to delete the account, but i dont want to read testamonials from other women either, so maybe a comprise, block the testamonials and maybe soon I can post a pic of the two of us a mingle sucess story!

That is a real good line, isn't it? Did it work for you?

No one has asked me not to be on here so I can't answer that question

Can't find a boyfriend, huh?

well the little fellow does not ask for much but this was one of the things he did...so I am thinking it ain't happening...maybe I was just looking for a way out...

No I have a boyfriend, he just has more respect for me than to but conditions on me

I recently had a conversation with two different Ladies that I have met on this site....

I myself do not have a problem if someone I was with wanted to keep their account active for the forums due to their friendships.Besides, if you do not have trust what are you left with?

That said, I would likely deactivate my account of my own accord. All of my Mingle friends know how to contact me via email or phone, the Lady I would choose to be with, I would hope, will understand this.

I met my ex on another site and we discussed deleting both of our profiles. I deleted mine right after we moved in together and he told me to delete his, but I told him that HE needed to be the one to push the button -- not me. Needless to say, he never deleted the profile while we were together, but did so THE DAY he moved out. That kinda confuses me. Anyway, I now have profiles on 3 sites which is more than the 1 site I was on when he and I met. So do what is best for your unique situation.

When I signed up on here it was called justsayhi it was a networking site not a free dating site. I have met the person Im with on here. I have been active in the forums for 2 years. He and I have the agreement of the fact we both use the forums but if either of us were to send nudie pics, cyber, phone etc... its cheating.

I would like to think that when the dust settles that you know who your friends are... despite the fact that some of us can be slightly busy at times...

I don't think that's a lot to ask. I agree this site is not just about dating and finding someone. The forums are great and I've made a ton of friends. But, if I wanted to make sure the man was at ease by simply getting off of a dating site, and he and I were serious, I'd do it. I confess!! It would bother me if I had a fellow who insisted on staying on dating sites. It is not even so much about him going after others, but others putting themselves in front of him. And, from experience, I can say that there are a lot of negative people who don't want others to be happy or have no qualms about trying to break up a relationship.
If you have REAL FRIENDS on here, you have them offline as well. The guy is real and his comfort should be considered. It's not an outrageous request. Ya'll can go on and on about "If he trusted me he wouldn't ask....", but it's OKAY to feel somewhat insecure!!!

point well taken my lord...for I surly know whom I can count on at 1 in the morning....and I shall remain your servant...

Now THAT sounds like you two really got together on the communication thing!! Bravo!!

Good Answer!
Good Answer!! (clap! clap!! clap!!! Applause! )

This is a social place for me too and my distraction outlet when I can't get out of the house. No way am I gonna give up online socializing. I've had too much FUN in the past 2 years!! And have met some wonderful peeps also! Some in person and others, weeell distance is an issue BUT the phone support has been wonderful and OH SO HELPFUL!!!

We actually met in the forums. And even now its not a big deal. Its all about trust. Now I was on a dating site when I met him. After we went exclusive I deleted it.

And his Majesty bellowed to CyPoet"Let Them Eat Cake!"however if your poetic words should ever fail to entertain me then I shall have your head removed.

don't get me wrong if he asked me to yes I would deactiviate