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Topic: Filling the "Whole"
Scorpius20052002's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:24 PM
Ever wonder if your going to meet that special someone who is going to come along and fill the "Whole" inside yourself to make you "Whole" Have you ever thought to yourself that maybe there is no one out there willing or capable of the postion or maybe you don't deserve to have that in your life. Well I have and I know I cant be alone on this subject. If your like me I would love to hear some of your thoughts. Come one Come all I want to hear what you think!!!!

no photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:26 PM
Never crossed my mind...huh.

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:26 PM
I've had it happen before. I suppose that I have to wait and, look elsewhere for another.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:27 PM
shocked Wholey Molyshocked

TxsSun's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:28 PM
I usually ruin every good thing that comes along.

I am not the person to ask here. But goodluck to ya

bastet126's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:29 PM
i would not look for someone to complete me, but we should compliment each other. and i usually find it when i'm least looking.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:29 PM
Actually have never felt like I was not whole. I may not have that special someone in my life to do things with in a partner type sense. But it is not something that is a must or a need in my life. Even though it would be nice to have someone special it will not keep me from enjoy what I do have. I may be alone but I'm not what some call lonely either.

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:29 PM
I don't think of myself or my life as havin a 'hole' in it. shades

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:30 PM

I usually ruin every good thing that comes along.

I am not the person to ask here. But goodluck to ya



My wife said almost the exact same thing when we started dating....She wasn't lying!!!!!!!!!!

TxsSun's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:32 PM


I usually ruin every good thing that comes along.

I am not the person to ask here. But goodluck to ya



My wife said almost the exact same thing when we started dating....She wasn't lying!!!!!!!!!!



Thanks for the support :tongue:


no photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:35 PM
I do not need anyone to make me whole. I feel sad for someone that cannot be a complete person without another. I'm not sure I even understand.

I would like to find someone to improve the quality of my life. However, I have no illusions about the likelihood of this happening. I'm sure I'll win lotto or get struck by lightning first. Most likely the latter.

no photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:37 PM

Ever wonder if your going to meet that special someone who is going to come along and fill the "Whole" inside yourself to make you "Whole" Have you ever thought to yourself that maybe there is no one out there willing or capable of the postion or maybe you don't deserve to have that in your life. Well I have and I know I cant be alone on this subject. If your like me I would love to hear some of your thoughts. Come one Come all I want to hear what you think!!!!


I used to think that there was someone out there to fill whatever it is that needed filling up. But now I'm just content in knowing that I'm alone on this planet and that I'll die a hermit.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:39 PM

I do not need anyone to make me whole. I feel sad for someone that cannot be a complete person without another. I'm not sure I even understand.

I would like to find someone to improve the quality of my life. However, I have no illusions about the likelihood of this happening. I'm sure I'll win lotto or get struck by lightning first. Most likely the latter.


totally agree flowerforyou

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Wed 06/17/09 06:47 PM

Ever wonder if your going to meet that special someone who is going to come along and fill the "Whole" inside yourself to make you "Whole" Have you ever thought to yourself that maybe there is no one out there willing or capable of the postion or maybe you don't deserve to have that in your life. Well I have and I know I cant be alone on this subject. If your like me I would love to hear some of your thoughts. Come one Come all I want to hear what you think!!!!


I've pretty much come to the conclusion that there is simply no one compatible out there. So my choices are: 1.) to get involved with people who either bore me to death within three months and/or who feel an uncontrollable need to change me into a completely different person; or 2.) remain alone for the rest of my life.

I've tried 1 enough times to know that it's NOT a viable solution, so it looks like I'm stuck with 2.


lilott's photo
Wed 06/17/09 06:56 PM
Alone is a good thing.

Scorpius20052002's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:04 PM
Ok let me clarify myself.... I myself am not incomplete or have a hole in it but dont you think it would be nice to come full circle and have the special someone that makes you whole so you can share what you have to offer in this world that is what I am talking about and truly I do not think it exists

noblenan's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:05 PM
After 50 years of thinking the opposite, and, many attempts, I have to say alone works for me. You are young. You still have your many attempts coming. flowerforyou

glasses

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 06/17/09 07:51 PM

Ok let me clarify myself.... I myself am not incomplete or have a hole in it but dont you think it would be nice to come full circle and have the special someone that makes you whole so you can share what you have to offer in this world that is what I am talking about and truly I do not think it exists


That's because it doesn't exist, love is a lot like Humpty Dumpty...a cute story to get kids too bed.

Jess642's photo
Wed 06/17/09 11:56 PM
I'm already 'Whole'...so don't need anyone to come and get me....

Sharing life with another 'Whole' person is pretty great though.

I can think of a few holes that need filling...but my 'Wholeness ain't it....noway :tongue: pitchfork


longhairbiker's photo
Thu 06/18/09 12:14 AM
I like that "Hole" CD. Courtney love really belted that sh!t out.

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