I just can't catch a break

and then came a dog...

Or out of the box

Gals-ave to fuller fig, all your own hair.
All teeth in mouth, no slippage
Able to read-now this is absolute.
Tats-on a case by case basis.

this is turning out to be a lot more work than anticipated, now I have to straddle between being in the box and being outta da box

anyone who thinks or says that appearances dont matter is highly delusional.

looks and appearances get your foot in the door with girls or guys, but once that is over, its on you to keep him/her interested. thats when personality and a sense of humor and prowess in conversation comes into play. and it only gets more complicated from there.

dude she's right, quit puttin yourself down, i'm the only one on this site that's aloud to do that, for i'm a hidious badboy monster, and you're only bringing bad energy to yourself when ya do this. you actually resemble Dennis Weaver from that pic you have, and he got his share of ladies, and eventually married one.....maybe put a cowboy hat on....it worked for him, lol... you take it easy on yourself man. dude, i'd go with mountain lion i mean it about bad energy! i'm guilty sometimes too, and have to check myself regularly!!!

hey mate

its, what? 2 o clock? sounds good to me bruda. how you been?

I will offer to take any man here and within one month, get them a women that is way out of their league. But you gotta live near me, cuz I am lazy and have a 4 for 4 average so far.

yall wanna break? anthony robbins "unlimmited power", and "awaken the giant from within". it works, and if i had this ten years ago, i'd be not just rich, but wealthy in all aspects!!!! the most prolific book i think, of the twentieth century, "How to win friends and influence people" has shortcuts and ways to deal with about every situation i can think of. i found out how much i didn't know, and refined what i had which was quite a bit, and mostly common sense, and turned it to work for me......always humble enough to learn, i am!!!

I'm great homie..........except for this rain



aww hell it's after 12:00 so we wouldn't be considered alcoholics

D.O., it isn't even about that, really -- I've been involved in a lot of relationships (admittedly, all bad), so it's never been a question of "finding" someone -- I'm just tired of always "finding" (or being "found" by) the wrong ones.

It turns out that the ultimate agenda for everyone I've been with is that they want to CHANGE everything about me (isn't it odd how "I love everything about you!" goes to "I have to CHANGE everything about you!" in 90 days or less, or YOUR MONEY BACK!) and I'm not really looking to be changed in that way.

The "goat" thing is just sort of a running gag about how women are always trying to "domesticate" me -- playing off Nietzsche's 1880s concept of the "herd animal," I use a goat as the symbol of this sort of unwanted domesticatory attempt.

I really don't think of it as me putting myself down -- I'm just recognizing the reality that there isn't anybody here who embodies the things I need in a partner. I'm a writer, not a goat. And I don't want to be a goat.

For the record, I've BEEN married, and it was horrible. Not gonna do THAT again!

yeah we got that last night... now you pa dudes get it.

and if we are playing by noon rules, we will be set by 5pm. power nap, then on with the night.

i understand entirely! and yeah, that molding, changing thing is ever apparent i've noticed, and i'm duel cautious now, even with friends......

I agree!!

I know I have preferences for height, looks, and size ect. that might get a guy a little more notice but it is and always will be how a man treats me and others over physical characteristics in the long run. Maybe that sounds like I am trying to be PC but it is true. So far the great love of my life was not most of my physical preferences, and I was absolutely not even looking but getting to know him how he was and how our life was together made him the the cats pajama's. I am just hoping that wasn't just one lucky moment but giving a guy a chance to be a gentleman and shine in his own personal way. I believe there are a lot of great guys out there and some of them are even on Mingle. Actually I think there are quite a few on Mingle. My suggestion would be don't be discouraged just talk to some people and find out who they really are.