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Topic: Why why why?
Jtevans's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:50 AM
put a hit out on him smokin

jimmymac1966's photo
Tue 06/16/09 05:36 AM



I'm wondering why a certain guy would worry about who i'm hanging out with when it's the GUY that's not making time to spend with ME?! Does he even get to be mad? what's that all about?


Sounds like insecurity issues, RUN FOREST RUN LOL


what store can i purchase a secure man?


We men ask that same question. We all have luggage in our lives. Well at least at my age. So we go by our life experiences. Some people can have bad experiences however not carry it with them, others can not. It all depends on the person and how they see things. Kick him to the curb, there are more men out there. He may be right around the corner or right in front of you and you do not know it, because your wasting time with this guy. Hang in there.

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Tue 06/16/09 05:39 AM

I'm wondering why a certain guy would worry about who i'm hanging out with when it's the GUY that's not making time to spend with ME?! Does he even get to be mad? what's that all about?
...because you pick whiners? Ooops, I mean winners.

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Tue 06/16/09 08:59 AM
The way I see it......if a man wants to be with you they will make EVERY effort to do so. There is nothing worse than a whiney guy who says he wants to be with you but makes zero effort!!slaphead

Next!!! Ya snooze ya lose!!slaphead

74Drew's photo
Tue 06/16/09 09:09 AM

I'm wondering why a certain guy would worry about who i'm hanging out with when it's the GUY that's not making time to spend with ME?! Does he even get to be mad? what's that all about?

just because he doesn't want to spend time with you doesn't mean that he's ok with you spending time with others. you're suppose to be ready when he calls or didn't you know that?


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Tue 06/16/09 09:24 AM



I'm wondering why a certain guy would worry about who i'm hanging out with when it's the GUY that's not making time to spend with ME?! Does he even get to be mad? what's that all about?


Are you trying to make him jelous so he decides to spend more time with you by chance?


Not at all, before I can finish my sentence telling him i'm hanging out with an old chick friend...he went crazy getting loud... still there's no need for the rage!


then dump him

Th3Friend's photo
Tue 06/16/09 11:53 AM


I'm wondering why a certain guy would worry about who i'm hanging out with when it's the GUY that's not making time to spend with ME?! Does he even get to be mad? what's that all about?




100% of the time: he is acting out emotions that you should be acting had you known the information he knows about himself. You just don't know it and he does... that is why he is acting so strange. It's reverse phychology.

Example: If he is paranoid about you cheating (and you're not and he has no reason to suspect it), it means he is cheating.




Please dont ANYONE listen to this advice.... This guy speaks for himself, not 100% of guys.

I would question his maturity before I would question his fidelity. Some guys arent ready for a strong relationship, doesnt mean they are whoremongers. Maybe he doesnt know what he wants, but knows he doesnt want to lose you. Only one way to find out... be upfront and ask him WTF!!

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Tue 06/16/09 04:41 PM
Edited by HoneyClov on Tue 06/16/09 04:49 PM


Please dont ANYONE listen to this advice.... This guy speaks for himself, not 100% of guys.

I would question his maturity before I would question his fidelity. Some guys arent ready for a strong relationship, doesnt mean they are whoremongers. Maybe he doesnt know what he wants, but knows he doesnt want to lose you. Only one way to find out... be upfront and ask him WTF!!


I plan on WTFin him when he calls.

Th3Friend's photo
Mon 06/22/09 05:40 AM



Please dont ANYONE listen to this advice.... This guy speaks for himself, not 100% of guys.

I would question his maturity before I would question his fidelity. Some guys arent ready for a strong relationship, doesnt mean they are whoremongers. Maybe he doesnt know what he wants, but knows he doesnt want to lose you. Only one way to find out... be upfront and ask him WTF!!


I plan on WTFin him when he calls.


Soooo... WTF happened? Clear any of this up, at all?

Pata's photo
Mon 06/22/09 09:36 AM

I'm wondering why a certain guy would worry about who i'm hanging out with when it's the GUY that's not making time to spend with ME?! Does he even get to be mad? what's that all about?


Jealous and possesive. If you ain´t with him you ain´t with no one.

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Mon 06/22/09 09:37 AM
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HoneyClov's photo
Mon 06/22/09 11:03 PM
Edited by HoneyClov on Mon 06/22/09 11:04 PM




Please dont ANYONE listen to this advice.... This guy speaks for himself, not 100% of guys.

I would question his maturity before I would question his fidelity. Some guys arent ready for a strong relationship, doesnt mean they are whoremongers. Maybe he doesnt know what he wants, but knows he doesnt want to lose you. Only one way to find out... be upfront and ask him WTF!!


I plan on WTFin him when he calls.


Soooo... WTF happened? Clear any of this up, at all?

Plain and simple he doesn't know what he wants and I'm ready to move on :) but like you said he doesn't want to lose me, but with me he's can't eat his cake and have it too. Pshhh! Okay that's the low down... NEXT! haha better things in the future.

Th3Friend's photo
Tue 06/23/09 10:11 AM





Please dont ANYONE listen to this advice.... This guy speaks for himself, not 100% of guys.

I would question his maturity before I would question his fidelity. Some guys arent ready for a strong relationship, doesnt mean they are whoremongers. Maybe he doesnt know what he wants, but knows he doesnt want to lose you. Only one way to find out... be upfront and ask him WTF!!


I plan on WTFin him when he calls.


Soooo... WTF happened? Clear any of this up, at all?

Plain and simple he doesn't know what he wants and I'm ready to move on :) but like you said he doesn't want to lose me, but with me he's can't eat his cake and have it too. Pshhh! Okay that's the low down... NEXT! haha better things in the future.


That sucks... sorry to hear that it didnt go good. Keep ya head up, I am sure there are many, many men waiting to have some of your cake. I never understood that cliche tho... what is the use in having cake if you cant eat it? I guess putting icing all over it is fun too.

sorry all... I am in a weird mood today.

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Tue 06/23/09 10:30 AM
Sounds like a insecure and controlling type,you have a right to be with whoever you please why is it any of his business.

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