...I thought you were a good girl.

Hmmmmmmmmmm.

Now I am intrigued. I bet I can find out in two minutes.

Ready go!!!

Well geez J...I can't be good ALL the time!

TeeHeeHeeHee =
Definitely_LTR?

Bry

To bad I aint a nice guy...lol.

Who the hell said I wanted one? I just said that I'd be more inclined to believe a guy who shows he's nice. Not that I wanted one.

Right about now, I'd rather have someone naughty, with a nice streak. I would never take too much BS but a troublemaker who can keep up with me? Oh yea

Makes me laugh when people complain 'not another thread about..." or it's been done a million times.

People everything here (subjects, comments, ideas) have been done a million times.

It doesn't interest you just go somewhere else.

If you have the right to bit%%ch about it, they have the right to ask the question they want.

Yeah, they're on that other site...that's why we're here!
Just popping in to say hello...hope ya'll don't mind...

Definitely (NO) LTR (for me now!)

Just here for my own $h!t and G!ggles!!

The more the merrier girlie :)

First, let me congratulate you on your first post. It's notable for a number of reasons. The first of which is that it is your first post. And you never forget your first. Well, that's not really true... I couldn't begin to tell you what my first post was. Maybe it was a nice guy thread, I don't know.

Your first post is also notable in that your 'nice guy' topic is in the top 3, and quite possibly the #1 most posted of topics. There's no search engine for the forums so there's no real way for you to have known that, but i assure you... if you wait 5 minutes... there will be another one along shortly. The regulars here, if I can use the term 'regular', have seen the question more times than Gilligan almost made it off the island.

But here's the nutshell of it.

My experience is that the 'nice guys' are guys that are upset because they can't get women to actually notice them. They think that just because they're a 'nice guy', they're nixed off the list. I used to think the same. But then I had a revelation. I said "Tngxl65 (because when I talk to myself I use my screen name), maybe it's not because they're 'nice guys' that they don't get noticed. Maybe it's because they don't offer anything that would get them noticed!" I know, I was pretty shocked too. It just seems to me that it doesn't matter if you're the 'nice guy'. If you simply make yourself noticable.... distinguish yourself in some way that someone might find interesting or attractive, then perhaps you might get noticed. This doesn't mean you have to do something outrageous or get a cool haircut (although cool hair never really hurts) it just means you have to present yourself in a way that gives people a reason to get to know you.

So rather than make the 'nice guy' complaint, maybe try telling something about you that others will find interesting and compelling. Type up a profile that draws people in (I haven't read your profile, so don't think I'm judging yours... it could be swell for all I know). And chatting on the forums is also a great way to meet people (that are a billion miles away).

And, when you DO get someone to notice you, they will probably be pleasantly surprised to find out that you are a nice guy as well. Turns out that being a 'nice guy' can be a bonus if it's not your calling card.

tngxl65... you are entirely too nice, damn man!

Turns out I really am an ass. Don't tell anyone.

We can tell

Something tells me not.

So you really think your a nice guy hmmmmm.

You know?? I said it before in my posts, friends show up in the strangest places....that holds true for who we think we are searching for also. I'm glad that I for one, am willing to take a man at face value, instead of trying to find the "perfect nice guy" and turn him into what I might have been looking for in the past. Thank God, wisdom comes with age. Men ...and women both have values that some people pass by, because they might not look, or act the way we want them to. Good men are everywhere!! I've met several here on M2 and look forward to meeting more and being their friend. But no preconcieved notions is expected of them by me. Just my take on things....for what it's worth!

I'm tellin'. And I brought my bullhorn.

ANCJ recruitment drive in progress here....