I think you have stronger feelings than you admit to yourself. You said it and it is done. It came from deep inside you. If this scares him off today it will scare him off later. It will hurt you now or it will hurt you later. You do need to Talk to him and find not only his thoughts and feelings, but you will also find out your own.

I read your post and, I'm listening to what you're saying. Time and talk, if any will tell.

i don't get it...what's the L word...is he a lesbian...or a loser?

if he's avoiding because you let i love you slip out I'd be done I don't play ignoring games.If i'm ignoring someone it means I don't want to deal with that person ever

shoes......i love many people, and it doesn't mean i'm in love with anyone...but i love them dearly, and it's society that makes that word a singular commitment, not us as individual people... and that is society's fault...shame! you have to watch where you say the word now, when it should never have boundries put on it. it's very special to just love someone for who they are!!! i love many people, but all differently, and generally i tell them that i love them.......and if i explain it, they all understand....it takes me about a year or two to fall IN love, and it can take me a week to love someones heart, and chemistry is part of that. we love our friends, period. our true friends even more! why can't we just love our friends and our crushes? i certainly do! and with no ties!!!! there should never be ties!!! people should WANT to be together!!! not be FORCED into certain society rules!!!! it doesn't mean we're IN love, we just.....love! so... give him this if he has a problem...print it out, or say it in your own words....he will read it!!!!


and you didn't screw up...that make love a tedious game that has society's rules and it's never supposed to be a game!!!......screw the rules. feelings like this, come and go, and the more we know someone, if we like them, the stronger they get usually, and that includes just friends.......example......aren't there friends you just couldn't imagine them NOT being in your life now? well, at first it wasn't that strong, was it? it has to be built on, and then devotion to that friend, and being there, sometimes at all cost! they are worth it! yes, it's enevitable that we might be hurt, but if we don't at least try, nothing is gained.

AAHHH...Love.don't ever fret expressing love to someone!

dude...you rock!

Thank you gentlemen. You word's are kind one's indeed to my support. Thank you for making me feel not so bad afterall. Wendy

Sheesh

Just say exactly what you said here!!!!

and like i've said - u never screwed up hun

If youre really embarrassed, just walk around town with a blanket ontop of your head!!

I couldn't agree more but that all depends on how long you two have been in a relationship. Not to mention you already said you didn't mean it

I would like to refer babygirl back to my previous statement

well since he wont call you back, how about you TEXT him. Tell him you loved the moment you shared that day! Try to blend it so that he might feel stupid for a moment haha.

Truely though? If he's scared of hearing the "L" word then perhaps your relationship with him wont go anywhere. Good luck

I explained myself in an email this afternoon. No call as yet, nor do I expect one. I'm over it. Got my therapy here and, on my home front.

Good! move on! if he calls he calls and if not? screw it!