Topic: I screwed up
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Sun 06/14/09 07:58 AM
:banana: The "L" Word? Lesbian? be seeing you

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Sun 06/14/09 07:59 AM
Sigh.....Yeah that happened to me this week too. I did talk to him and he said it had nothing to do with me. He just realized he wasn't ready and didn't want to hurt me.

Maybe your BF is feeling the same or maybe he is just taking time to think. The responses on here that you should talk to him are good. At least you know exactly where you stand even if it isn't the answer you wanted.

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Sun 06/14/09 07:59 AM
Some men like the "lesbian" word

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Sun 06/14/09 08:02 AM

Some men like the "lesbian" word

ill scared

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Sun 06/14/09 08:03 AM

BIG TIME! When leaving my new bf (it's probably over now), my brain was soooo not working. The L word slipped out. I don't think he heard me but, I do think he read my lip's. I don't know what happened to me! No, I don't mean it, it just came out. How do I fix this? Now,he's avoiding me. Ya know, not calling when he say's he will. Any advice folk's?


did u mean it tho hunni? now think hard and look deep flowerforyou

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Sun 06/14/09 08:05 AM
brokenheart

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Sun 06/14/09 08:21 AM


BIG TIME! When leaving my new bf (it's probably over now), my brain was soooo not working. The L word slipped out. I don't think he heard me but, I do think he read my lip's. I don't know what happened to me! No, I don't mean it, it just came out. How do I fix this? Now,he's avoiding me. Ya know, not calling when he say's he will. Any advice folk's?


did u mean it tho hunni? now think hard and look deep flowerforyou
NO, I didn't mean it. I was FEEEEEEEEEELING affection for him. Ya know, us women and our feeling's. It was like my brain was turned off and, complete;y disconnected from my mouth. It just came out. I was Sh!tting my pant's as soon as it happened.

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Sun 06/14/09 08:26 AM
well i don't think uv done anything wrong or to worry about and he's a d!ck if he lets that fok it up. is it not ok to say u love someone now? which is different from being 'in love'. i mean i love u don't i? flowers

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Sun 06/14/09 08:39 AM

well i don't think uv done anything wrong or to worry about and he's a d!ck if he lets that fok it up. is it not ok to say u love someone now? which is different from being 'in love'. i mean i love u don't i? flowers
Thank's fifer, you're such a sweetie!happy

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Sun 06/14/09 08:49 AM
i just tells it likes it is hun smooched

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Sun 06/14/09 09:06 AM

i just tells it likes it is hun smooched
There's nothing like a man who isn't afraid to be up front and speak his mind. flowerforyou

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Sun 06/14/09 09:10 AM


i just tells it likes it is hun smooched
There's nothing like a man who isn't afraid to be up front and speak his mind. flowerforyou


and if i feel like sayin i love u no guy wi hangups is gonna stop me! it's how i feel at the time and like i said i'm not saying i'm in love with u mista!

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Sun 06/14/09 09:17 AM
Edited by shoesmonkey on Sun 06/14/09 09:19 AM



i just tells it likes it is hun smooched
There's nothing like a man who isn't afraid to be up front and speak his mind. flowerforyou


and if i feel like sayin i love u no guy wi hangups is gonna stop me! it's how i feel at the time and like i said i'm not saying i'm in love with u mista!
I'm ditto with ya on that one. "You can't handle the truth!" right? NO realy though, I don't. It slipped out. I don't know how!! BUt, if he can't handle it enough to talk to me "like a man" what else can't he handle "like an adult"? I'm goin outside for a smoke a fag.

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Sun 06/14/09 09:18 AM
Somtimes not saying anything

is saying everything

and that's not being negative that's just being real flowerforyou


sorry i hope it works out for you brokenheart

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Sun 06/14/09 09:20 AM

Somtimes not saying anything

is saying everything

and that's not being negative that's just being real flowerforyou


sorry i hope it works out for you brokenheart
His not saying anything........hmmmmmmmmmm, like saying "take a walk babe". Right?

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Sun 06/14/09 09:21 AM

Somtimes not saying anything

is saying everything

and that's not being negative that's just being real flowerforyou


sorry i hope it works out for you brokenheart
Pfft, maybe he's just not for me Dubz.

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Sun 06/14/09 09:25 AM
Dont feel bad......once I called my bf of 2 years Len........my bf's name was Steve!!slaphead rofl rofl Try getting out of THAT one!!!scared shocked rofl

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Sun 06/14/09 10:46 AM

Dont feel bad......once I called my bf of 2 years Len........my bf's name was Steve!!slaphead rofl rofl Try getting out of THAT one!!!scared shocked rofl
Gotta say, you've got me beat! lol

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Sun 06/14/09 10:50 AM
Give him some time, guys get spooked easily by that word. They think it means "Let's get married and make a barn full of babies"

If he wont talk to you right now, dont email, text and call relentlessly or he will get spooked more. I'm not saying his reaction is justified, just that it is what it is.

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Sun 06/14/09 10:53 AM


Dont feel bad......once I called my bf of 2 years Len........my bf's name was Steve!!slaphead rofl rofl Try getting out of THAT one!!!scared shocked rofl
Gotta say, you've got me beat! lol
But whats funnier is that Len.....I mean STeve I mean Len.....oh crap!!! They both proposed to me!!slaphead shocked rofl