If you knew of a guy who is nothing but a "gold digger". Looking for a woman who has money.......and you knew this for a FACT......would you warn his new "intrest"? Even though ya don't know her. Say the guy is really to LAZY to get a full time job and is calling you (and other female friends) complaing his phone, internet, and other things will be shut off......oh and lets not forget his rent being due. Should ya let the new "intrest" know or just let it go and stay out of it? (no he is not an ex.....so this isnt made outa anger, however he is a friend.)

i'd rat his sorry ass out!!!!

Unfortunately I would stay out of it .He'll show himself eventually .

If she has any kind of brain she'll find out soon enough. If not you might try dropping a subtle hint here and there.

if you rat him out though....how do you think the other girl would take it. some girls would think there is something else behind it. i would stay out if i didn't know the girl

I just NOW found out that she WAS warned by a few other friends and that she doesnt believe its true. She is in love (but they havent met yet............go figure) Oh well.......guess she is going to have to find out on her own. I hate saying this about him cause he is a friend of mine. But he does know how I and others feel about his ways........its just not right.


STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES

that'd be my decision as well.

hi sherry, nice to see you around these parts too!

valid point here..might think there is an ulterior motive on your part if she doesn even know you ..his shortcomings will soon enough be found out on her own..stay removed from the situation.

how do you even know there is another girl??? just curious

if she was warned by friends...then it's on her now. but a stranger saying something (whther it's with good intentions) she might think there were other motives

i thought u were my ex girlfriend until your picture popped up

He sounds like a real sorry azz piece of work alright however she sounds like she's way to naive for her own good.I believe that she is about to learn a valuable lesson from the school of hard knocks.These things have a way of backfiring on the innocent one w/ good intentions.I'd stay out of this mess(jmo)Godspeed!Cy

gold diggers can be a problem, but they always screw up when they're with what they think are their real friends. i've had their friends come up to me after they find out that i'm sincere, and they'll usually give me a hint, or ask certain questions. big give-away is them being real needy and high maintenance, and self-centeredness, self absorbed.....i one wouldn't leave me so i could get on with my life, and i offered her 20 grand, and a date with a rockstar. she dated the rockstar. i left.

ya know? they also seem to get sick a lot, all week, lay around on the couch, or in bed ..... until the weekend.. just an observation.....ever notice?

Hiya Lisa!!! Nice to see ya too!!! I know Ive been MIA for a bit Trust me I know there is another girl.....they are claiming love for each other

I agree that I would stay out of it too. I try to stay out of other people's relationships.

Who cares weather the woman thinks you have motives? You do your best, and eventually, she will see it. Thats a sacrifice I would definitely make. If she doesnt want to see the light of day, thats her problem, but I would for sure make contributions, and efforts.

I would want to know myself.

The truth will set you free.

xo

if a man does not want to hold his own, he deserves to go down, period. maybe remind her of that, and stay out of it.
men do have the world by the balls, and if they don't apply, and fall, they've got nobody to blame but themselves. i have no pity on loafers.

honestly i dont think its any of your business

sounds like you care a little too much about it

billy's right, but be a friend to her, remind her about loafers, and that's all you can really do, for if you get into it, it'll sometimes backfire get you the worst. there's learning and wisdom going on here for them. just catch her when she falls.

your right it is known of my business, however this new intrest of his is friends with others that I know and they say she is a good friend to them. They themselves have warned her......but she chose not to listen. Thats on her.....I probaly wont say nothing to her, just curious as to what y'all thought

Good move.