Have you ever noticed how meeting someone who is interested in you & continues to want to know more about you, the effect it has upon your day to day outlook?

You find that you're smiling more to yourself. You wake up in the morning with an air of expectancy. You look forward to that next communique hoping to learn something today, that you didn't know yesterday. You find yourself opening up like a book, hoping that they will appreciate your openness & honesty. You step out there on that limb, hoping that it doesn't break, and hoping that you don't provide the saw that will severe it from the tree. Hoping forgiveness can be found when you've said something stupid. Hoping that the other person finds you as interesting as you do them. Finding yourself wanting to rush in, pell-mell, headlong, when patience needs to be the key to discovery and a true lasting relationship. Giving the other person the space & time they need to feel that they can trust you.

And maybe, just maybe, they will begin feel like they can't live without you. That you are the ONE. The ONE they've been searching for all these years. The ONE they will cherish and love. The ONE who will love them unconditionally. The ONE who will love them through thick and thin, hell and high water. The ONE who will always be there for them. The ONE who will hold them and tell them everything will be alright, when all has gone wrong.

May you find your ONE.

You sound like you've gotten bitten by the love bug for her!!!! You should tell her...

too early....

Have you ever noticed how meeting someone who is interested in you & continues to want to know more about you, the effect it has upon your day to day outlook?

You find that you're smiling more to yourself. You wake up in the morning with an air of expectancy. You look forward to that next communique hoping to learn something today, that you didn't know yesterday. You find yourself opening up like a book, hoping that they will appreciate your openness & honesty. You step out there on that limb, hoping that it doesn't break, and hoping that you don't provide the saw that will severe it from the tree. Hoping forgiveness can be found when you've said something stupid. Hoping that the other person finds you as interesting as you do them. Finding yourself wanting to rush in, pell-mell, headlong, when patience needs to be the key to discovery and a true lasting relationship. Giving the other person the space & time they need to feel that they can trust you.

And maybe, just maybe, they will begin feel like they can't live without you. That you are the ONE. The ONE they've been searching for all these years. The ONE they will cherish and love. The ONE who will love them unconditionally. The ONE who will love them through thick and thin, hell and high water. The ONE who will always be there for them. The ONE who will hold them and tell them everything will be alright, when all has gone wrong.

May you find your ONE.

i write similar, but i could not have said this any better very impressive.....

it's truly the only way to go.....there is no other.....only type o's...now if i could get rid of those......(scratches head)

Are you a risk taker?

If not, why are you here? Why do you lurk about these forums and threads, if it's not to take a risk? "A risk at what?", you ask. A risk at real love and romance.

You say you're not a risk taker, really?
Do you not realize that we take risks every day?
We take risks when we merge onto the freeway, step into the crosswalk, take that first baby step, ride our 1st bike, kiss our 1st kiss.

We take risks when we entrust our well-being to others such as: aircraft mechanics, elevator servicemen, bus drivers, train engineers, taxi drivers, doctors and politicians.

There are no true rewards without risks. It may take many risks to reach your reward. Thomas Edison risked his reputation literally 100's of time before he achieved his reward. Something hard-fought is well earned.

Have you considered the cost of finding your true love? Is it worth it?

If you shun risks, you will lose the thrill of discovery.
If you shun risks, you will become dull and lifeless.
If you shun risks, you will become old before your time.
But most of all, if you shun risks, you will risk missing the person, who can bring sunshine, rainbows, smiles, love, appreciation, admiration and joy into your life.

When God created Adam and Eve and gave them free-will, he took a risk. He risked the fate of humanity on the fact that he wanted mankind to freely love Him, not because he told them to.

If God can take a risk at enjoying true love, why not you?

Tribefan have You taken a risk?????

Yes, I have. Well worth it.



Hi sweets. Phone died, no juice, my bad.

Rainy Day... 6-12-09

I saw the most beautiful thing at work yesterday. It was storming outside, thunder and lightning; torrents of rain pouring out of the sky. I walked down the hallway, stopping to look out at the wall of windows in the main lobby of the building.

Outside I saw a girl standing under the covered area of the building. She had some books in her arms that she had placed on the ground so she could hold her bag better.

Out of nowhere, her boyfriend ran up out of the rain from the parking lot with a small umbrella that was possibly a child's and opened it. He reached down and grabbed her books and walked the girl out to her car, walking himself in the rain to keep her dry and covered by the tiny umbrella.

He walked his girlfriend to her car, then hurried to his own, already soaked from the downpour.

I smiled, my eyes filled with tears at seeing such a kind gesture. I was reminded of love in it's purest form, chilvarous and noble. My heart just jumped with excitement at seeing this small gesture mean so much.

Real Beauty

Do we know it when we see it? Is it based just on what we see, or something more?

Most would agree that sunsets, fresh fallen snow, trees in the fall, waterfalls, wind & water shaped beaches are beautiful. As are sunrises, nature trails, deserts, mountains, animals in the wild, horses, white fluffy clouds in an azure sky, the smell in the air after a summer's thunderstorm and rainbows.

What about on a human level? The love a parent has for their child, of helping someone less-fortunate, being there for a friend in need, putting others first, performing acts of kindness in secret, paying someone a compliment, granting forgiveness even if it isn't requested, being merciful and loving the unlovable, all qualify as things of beauty.

Then there is what Madison Avenue and the entertainment industry tell us is beautiful.

As far back as human history goes, man-kind has been obsessed with physical beauty. But the perception has changed over the eons. What was considered beautiful even 100 years ago has changed? In our media saturated culture we are constantly bomb-barded with the "latest" fad of beauty. Beneath the surface of the plastic, manipulated and massaged object of "beauty", a reasoned person would ask, is there any substance? What kind of person remains if all of the outer trappings are stripped away? Is this a person that would be there for me through thick and thin? A person that would sacrifice self to relieve another’s pain? Put me first?

Sadly, many times, the answer is no and we allow ourselves to be caught-up in the "Madison Avenue beauty" and are willing to compromise our integrity for the temporary visual satisfaction. I say temporary, because the “beauty” can maintained for only so long. As time continues it relentless pursuit of entropy, we age and decay. Our functions systematically fail and we transition to the infinite. When the outer shell is stripped away, and we see the real person in all their nakedness, are they what we anticipated?

How different might our world be, if we pursued the objects of “real” beauty? Looking beneath the surface and examining the person for what they truly are? Discovering a person of depth, sincerity, integrity, kindness, self-sacrificing, empathy, intelligence, compassion, creativeness, and love, these are some of the parameters of “real” beauty.

The ultimate example of “Real Beauty in a Plain Outer Wrapper” was Jesus. When the infinite became finite, he didn’t arrive as one in his human lineage, King David, who was very handsome indeed. Instead he appeared as one you would hardly take notice of. He desired that people would respond to him because of the words he spoke and the compassion he had for them. Not because he might be physically attractive. He was substance over superficial.

So if you cross paths with someone on this sight that you find to be stimulating and intriguing, are you going to dismiss them because they don’t match what society has conditioned us to perceive as “beauty”? I ask you, who is calling the shots in your life? If you do decide to look elsewhere, be aware that somewhere down the road, you may find that you missed the opportunity to connect with someone of “real” beauty and substance. And that you probably have missed your chance at real happiness.