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As I said whooo caressss? lol.. I wasnt there to make friends, i was there to make money. Do you care if people give a rats *** about you when you sell any product? no. do you care when you make their food in a resturant? no? why would i care what someone thought about me in a strip club?  Just pay me the cash. But the truth of the matter was, people were extra nice. Did you find that the regular clients were almost a little intimidated by you? That they were almost in awe of you? I have found that most clients in the adult industry are more respectful of the women, than the average Joe in a bar is... Omg yes! many were very in awe, but I am a real down to earth girl next door so it helped, but yeah, they stayed in awe. And you hit the nail on the head.. they were all more respectful than anyone had ever been anywhere I had ever worked. You bring up a very good point, and i thought about posting that fact, but i thought, nahh theyd never get it. Sometimes the truth hurts.. I found Kleistos questions fascinating... and not reflecting on him personally, however... the kind of questions he asked always come from people who are outside of the industry....and usually men, who show that's how THEY think of women working in adult entertainment.... Objectifying the women, seeing them as sexual entertainment objects.. Whereas it is the exact opposite in most cases...regular clients see these women almost as iconic famous type people...an almost worship...rather than a piece of meat to be oggled at. hahahaha ooops...got a bit carried away there... **steps down off soapbox** Oh this is great, yeah, I have always loved to have a conversation with an intliigent woman in the industry. Its true, they can be really awesome, and they see you more as human than most imo. I mean you have your creepy clubs with the hookery gals, that cant stand up strait, and dont work regularly, and who make a bad name for dancers, but that wasnt my usual experience, those women imo didnt ever really get it, and no the customers didnt like them, but I sat with all of my customers, and didnt even HAVE to get up onstage to make money if I didnt want to, because i made money from them slipping me 20s, 50s, and 100's at the table just while I sat and drank, and ate, and talked. Its cool weve had similar experiences. I didnt mind taking my clothes off at all, and never felt real perved, i felt more perved on the street. |
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As in everything in life, there are those that take pride in their profession/trade/job, and those that are merely swapping hours for dollars.
An establishment that has class, and professional entertainment, ALWAYS has a higher calibre of clientele, than it's poor wannabe substitute...be it the mose elite of hotels, restaurants, or clubs. I guess what most have a challenge reconciling is, that the woman is the product....that is what she is selling...the 'illusion'...the ideal...not her soul.. we all sell ourselves...some just do it in six inch heels...   |
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Hee hee, I always thouroughly had enjoyed it. I just became a mommy, and I decided I didnt want to be that anymore because of my son. But when he grows I will proudly admit that is something I had done when hes old enough to grasp the concept, but not as a child.
I never did a lap dance before. Where I worked in Texas it was illegal, and you could goto jail for prostitution if you and the customer touched, but it was expected in Florida where I had worked, but I refused, and they never made me. I wouldnt have wanted to do that. |
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As I said whooo caressss? lol.. I wasnt there to make friends, i was there to make money. Do you care if people give a rats *** about you when you sell any product? no. do you care when you make their food in a resturant? no? why would i care what someone thought about me in a strip club? Just pay me the cash. But the truth of the matter was, people were extra nice. Did you find that the regular clients were almost a little intimidated by you? That they were almost in awe of you? I have found that most clients in the adult industry are more respectful of the women, than the average Joe in a bar is... Omg yes! many were very in awe, but I am a real down to earth girl next door so it helped, but yeah, they stayed in awe. And you hit the nail on the head.. they were all more respectful than anyone had ever been anywhere I had ever worked. You bring up a very good point, and i thought about posting that fact, but i thought, nahh theyd never get it. |
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As I said whooo caressss? lol.. I wasnt there to make friends, i was there to make money. Do you care if people give a rats *** about you when you sell any product? no. do you care when you make their food in a resturant? no? why would i care what someone thought about me in a strip club? Just pay me the cash. But the truth of the matter was, people were extra nice. Did you find that the regular clients were almost a little intimidated by you? That they were almost in awe of you? I have found that most clients in the adult industry are more respectful of the women, than the average Joe in a bar is... Omg yes! many were very in awe, but I am a real down to earth girl next door so it helped, but yeah, they stayed in awe. And you hit the nail on the head.. they were all more respectful than anyone had ever been anywhere I had ever worked. You bring up a very good point, and i thought about posting that fact, but i thought, nahh theyd never get it. Thats cos your sweet and awesome Jimmy!! |
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As I said whooo caressss? lol.. I wasnt there to make friends, i was there to make money. Do you care if people give a rats *** about you when you sell any product? no. do you care when you make their food in a resturant? no? why would i care what someone thought about me in a strip club? Just pay me the cash. But the truth of the matter was, people were extra nice. Did you find that the regular clients were almost a little intimidated by you? That they were almost in awe of you? I have found that most clients in the adult industry are more respectful of the women, than the average Joe in a bar is... Omg yes! many were very in awe, but I am a real down to earth girl next door so it helped, but yeah, they stayed in awe. And you hit the nail on the head.. they were all more respectful than anyone had ever been anywhere I had ever worked. You bring up a very good point, and i thought about posting that fact, but i thought, nahh theyd never get it. Thats cos your sweet and awesome Jimmy!!  Your words are very kind and I thank you for the over whelming joy you put into my heart. P.S. Your photo is so gentle on my soul. 
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It was a job.. thats all, money, and also, it was very exciting, and liberating, I had been a cocktail waitress in a strip club, and posed nude already by that time, so it wasnt a big deal, just natural. It gave me an opportuinty to entertain creatively, i enjoyed it. I'm not so sure there's a whole that can be done creatively as far as showing off one's body, but maybe there's more to it then it may seem, again no offense. Sure there is, theres choreography, theres costumes, theres a whole show you put on, with different music, you put a whole diffrnt vibe out there every time you get onstage. I worked in caberet, and burlesque, very entertaining. Its a beautiful art. Its awesome fun being a professioal fantasy. You've done quite a bit haven't you in this realm? It never bothered you that you were seen as more or less a body though at all in a lot of this? Just curious. NO, not at all, it was a job, I wasnt interested in what the men thought of me, I was making thousands of dollars nightly, whoo carreddd? lol I spoke with all of my customers too, and knew them. They came into the club each night, bought me lobster, and steak dinners, bought me clothes, new costumes, shoes, gave me money fo pay for whatever new thing i was planning on buying. Not a bad relationship really. Understood, though you realize if you weren't doing what you were doing, they wouldn't think to spend that type of money on you. Sure they wanted you happy, but I would gather it was more so you would stick around longer for them to look at, then out of any real care for you. That's how I see it anyway, could be wrong. I'm going to sleep now, so any response back you type I won't reply to till later. As I said whooo caressss? lol.. I wasnt there to make friends, i was there to make money. Do you care if people give a rats *** about you when you sell any product? no. do you care when you make their food in a resturant? no? why would i care what someone thought about me in a strip club? Just pay me the cash. But the truth of the matter was, people were extra nice. I was thinking of this earlier, and maybe I'm wrong, and you might be upset and even hate me for saying it, so I'm sorry in advance if I offend you here. But, I kind of wonder if you cared what these men thought of you more then you let on. By that I mean, you perhaps on some level wanted the attention, the acceptance from these guys you were struggling to get elsewhere at the time, even if it was just for your body more then the real you underneath. Like you knew it was shallow love, but yet you sort of just let that aspect go cause it was something more then you had, even though deep down you yearned for something real too. |
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earthytaurus76
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Tue 08/04/09 02:31 AM
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It was a job.. thats all, money, and also, it was very exciting, and liberating, I had been a cocktail waitress in a strip club, and posed nude already by that time, so it wasnt a big deal, just natural. It gave me an opportuinty to entertain creatively, i enjoyed it. I'm not so sure there's a whole that can be done creatively as far as showing off one's body, but maybe there's more to it then it may seem, again no offense. Sure there is, theres choreography, theres costumes, theres a whole show you put on, with different music, you put a whole diffrnt vibe out there every time you get onstage. I worked in caberet, and burlesque, very entertaining. Its a beautiful art. Its awesome fun being a professioal fantasy. You've done quite a bit haven't you in this realm? It never bothered you that you were seen as more or less a body though at all in a lot of this? Just curious. NO, not at all, it was a job, I wasnt interested in what the men thought of me, I was making thousands of dollars nightly, whoo carreddd? lol I spoke with all of my customers too, and knew them. They came into the club each night, bought me lobster, and steak dinners, bought me clothes, new costumes, shoes, gave me money fo pay for whatever new thing i was planning on buying. Not a bad relationship really. Understood, though you realize if you weren't doing what you were doing, they wouldn't think to spend that type of money on you. Sure they wanted you happy, but I would gather it was more so you would stick around longer for them to look at, then out of any real care for you. That's how I see it anyway, could be wrong. I'm going to sleep now, so any response back you type I won't reply to till later. As I said whooo caressss? lol.. I wasnt there to make friends, i was there to make money. Do you care if people give a rats *** about you when you sell any product? no. do you care when you make their food in a resturant? no? why would i care what someone thought about me in a strip club? Just pay me the cash. But the truth of the matter was, people were extra nice. I was thinking of this earlier, and maybe I'm wrong, and you might be upset and even hate me for saying it, so I'm sorry in advance if I offend you here. But, I kind of wonder if you cared what these men thought of you more then you let on. By that I mean, you perhaps on some level wanted the attention, the acceptance from these guys you were struggling to get elsewhere at the time, even if it was just for your body more then the real you underneath. Like you knew it was shallow love, but yet you sort of just let that aspect go cause it was something more then you had, even though deep down you yearned for something real too. No I had boyfriends, and never communicated with customers outsdie of the club, ive never lacked for male attention. It was a job, for money, and when I was done i went to my dressing room, and chilled. thats the art of the hustle dear.. but I DID try to make some men feel special, and better about their selves, and was nice to them for cash. Many were nice, but i am the last to reqire attention or love from people who are not close to me. it pays the bills. |
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It was a job.. thats all, money, and also, it was very exciting, and liberating, I had been a cocktail waitress in a strip club, and posed nude already by that time, so it wasnt a big deal, just natural. It gave me an opportuinty to entertain creatively, i enjoyed it. I'm not so sure there's a whole that can be done creatively as far as showing off one's body, but maybe there's more to it then it may seem, again no offense. Sure there is, theres choreography, theres costumes, theres a whole show you put on, with different music, you put a whole diffrnt vibe out there every time you get onstage. I worked in caberet, and burlesque, very entertaining. Its a beautiful art. Its awesome fun being a professioal fantasy. You've done quite a bit haven't you in this realm? It never bothered you that you were seen as more or less a body though at all in a lot of this? Just curious. NO, not at all, it was a job, I wasnt interested in what the men thought of me, I was making thousands of dollars nightly, whoo carreddd? lol I spoke with all of my customers too, and knew them. They came into the club each night, bought me lobster, and steak dinners, bought me clothes, new costumes, shoes, gave me money fo pay for whatever new thing i was planning on buying. Not a bad relationship really. Understood, though you realize if you weren't doing what you were doing, they wouldn't think to spend that type of money on you. Sure they wanted you happy, but I would gather it was more so you would stick around longer for them to look at, then out of any real care for you. That's how I see it anyway, could be wrong. I'm going to sleep now, so any response back you type I won't reply to till later. As I said whooo caressss? lol.. I wasnt there to make friends, i was there to make money. Do you care if people give a rats *** about you when you sell any product? no. do you care when you make their food in a resturant? no? why would i care what someone thought about me in a strip club? Just pay me the cash. But the truth of the matter was, people were extra nice. I was thinking of this earlier, and maybe I'm wrong, and you might be upset and even hate me for saying it, so I'm sorry in advance if I offend you here. But, I kind of wonder if you cared what these men thought of you more then you let on. By that I mean, you perhaps on some level wanted the attention, the acceptance from these guys you were struggling to get elsewhere at the time, even if it was just for your body more then the real you underneath. Like you knew it was shallow love, but yet you sort of just let that aspect go cause it was something more then you had, even though deep down you yearned for something real too. No I had boyfriends, and never communicated with customers outsdie of the club, ive never lacked for male attention. It was a job, for money, and when I was done i went to my dressing room, and chilled. thats the art of the hustle dear.. but I DID try to make some men feel special, and better about their selves, and was nice to them for cash. Many were nice, but i am the last to reqire attention or love from people who are not close to me. it pays the bills. 
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 Who is to say those men didn't really like Earthytaurus as a person?Some men are pathetic and fall in love easily.Especially if they are lonely.
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