Topic: How does this really work?
sweetsimplesassy's photo
Wed 06/10/09 08:44 PM
Edited by sweetsimplesassy on Wed 06/10/09 08:45 PM
Hi all..living in Minnesota and STILL trying to figure out how this internet dating stuff goes...
Do I have a sign plastered on my forhead stating "loser" or what? LOL I get messages, but maaaaan....some of the people that leave me messages are crazy! LOL
Is my profile something I should change or what should be different? Just looking for opinions..please...Thanks!

Aries151's photo
Wed 06/10/09 08:45 PM
You have to get 50 perv messages before you get 1 regular one. Have you reached 50 yet?

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Wed 06/10/09 08:48 PM
you have a gr8 profile and i doubt guys are getting past your pix before emailing you...lol
welcome to internet dating...*sigh*

elwoodsully's photo
Wed 06/10/09 08:53 PM
Pretty lady, nicely written profile, cute pooches, sarcastic sense of humor, and has faith in God. Hmmm.. Wish you were about 600 miles closer to me. :wink:

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Wed 06/10/09 09:00 PM
I mean not all the messages are bad, just hohum...boring....and most are just a simple hi and then thats it...whats with that? If ya want to know me or talk or are interested in meeting, be upfront, but this 50 messages about the weather really gets old...lol

and I am flattered but I get tons of guys in their 20's or 50+ not that age is huge, but c'mon...humor me a bit...lol

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Wed 06/10/09 09:01 PM
most people are ho hum boring

no photo
Wed 06/10/09 09:02 PM
You'll do just fine here on this site. One thing I might mention is "don't set your sites or expectations too high". Internet dating is great for some, and not for others. There are a lot more competition available on the Net, than in the real world. Good luck with your endeavors, and search.



sweetsimplesassy's photo
Wed 06/10/09 09:08 PM
Thanks All....I know there are so many others out there to pick from and I guess I am just frusterated with being the girl over looked. Guys say I am pretty, but...well, I'm just me...a very simple down to earth country gal and I want a man who is the same way..nothing fancy...just someone who will be my best friend and have my back and me his

AndyBgood's photo
Wed 06/10/09 09:09 PM
the bit about the piercings and tattoos are a lighthouse beacon to the nutcases and weirdos. Something to be said about your profile is TMI...

The knight in tinfoil line though...laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


So many knights and princes out there. At least they want to believe that they are something special but once you get past the superficial all you are left with is humans.

The thing is all is fair on the battle field of love. The tough part is knowing who your enemy is and who really is your ally. The best part is sometimes we are our own worst enemy!:banana:

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Wed 06/10/09 09:17 PM
Edited by sweetsimplesassy on Wed 06/10/09 09:17 PM
AndyBgood
That is so true!
Tmi? Whats that?

I only have one tat..lol and a couple piercings, okk 8 piercings, but nothing wild, crazy and out there as you can see by my pics...


yes, we are all just human. I do get a kick out of how EVERY profile pretty much says thay are romantic, great catch ect ect ect...yet 99.9 are divorced...why? Hey, I'm sure same with the women too..i am divorced myself(gay cheating husband-no joke) ..anyways....I'm not perfect and will be the 1st to admit it, but i am faithful to the T.
I wont act like I am something I'm not, hence the long profile i have just to give an idea of my personality...but I'm not perfect, I have crabby pms days too....(dont we all?)


Soon2bfound's photo
Wed 06/10/09 09:24 PM
Welcome to the funny farm.

TMI= Too much info

Don't sell yourself short. None of us are perfect though some think they are. Wish I was closer. I would e-mail. Just give it time.

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Thu 06/11/09 03:45 AM
Welcome to Mingle Sweet.

Your profile looks great, Has alot of depth, pictures are great and the last part of your name says it all.......Sassy...drool

Youll do well here, start browsing the forums and jump on in.

TM

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Thu 06/11/09 02:33 PM
Thanks All...I didnt realize there was this(forums) until last night... maybe I'll meet more people this way..

jtip1977's photo
Thu 06/11/09 02:38 PM
I think your profile is really well done. Sometimes it just takes a little bit. To meet that special someone will certainly be worth the wait.

metalwing's photo
Thu 06/11/09 02:39 PM
Welcome to the forums.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 06/11/09 02:42 PM
Hang in the forums & get to know some people.

looking4lovemk's photo
Wed 07/01/09 12:23 PM
I'm trying to figure this out myself sss, hell who knows maybe we can figure it out together so to speak

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 07/01/09 12:59 PM
One of the best ways to get to know a person's personality around here is to cruise an post in the forums:thumbsup: