Topic: breakups are good - tell you why
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Wed 06/10/09 03:36 AM
because if someone breaks up with you - something was not RIGHT in your "Relationship" in the first place. So, why do we get so sad? Even if we "love" them. Is the love we feel for ourselves not stronger and more important??

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 06/10/09 03:39 AM

because if someone breaks up with you - something was not RIGHT in your "Relationship" in the first place. So, why do we get so sad? Even if we "love" them. Is the love we feel for ourselves not stronger and more important??


I love myself 10 times more than I love you.

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Wed 06/10/09 03:54 AM
I love you four times as much as I love the person who posts under me but three times as much as the person who posted above you minus 1

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Wed 06/10/09 04:01 AM
you get sad because you will miss the person...
i just broke it off with a guy in march and i did realize that there were problems between us
we just lived completely separate lives, none of the same morals. i cried when it happened.... but then never really thought about it since then.
time can only heal your wounds.

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Wed 06/10/09 04:09 AM
coz u get rid o the kunt u should never have been with in the 1st place!

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Wed 06/10/09 04:09 AM
I believe on a spiritual level we are joined with some people who are close to us, and when that person isnt present we miss them. I agree with you 100% but sometimes we mourn for a minute.

Even the slightest brushes sometimes can leave an imprint on us our souls or spirits in my belief.

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Wed 06/10/09 04:14 AM
to katiia:

thats exactly what im saying...were u sad "they" left you or were you sad you were left empty?

to taurus:

the people who leave an imprint on you are the good ones. no reason to be sad when they leave. if they left its their loss. if they honestly left an imprint on you that means they were in your life for a reason and its unfortunate for them for leaving, because they could have learned something too


to eddie:

i love you!

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Wed 06/10/09 04:16 AM
luv ya too big boy winking

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Wed 06/10/09 04:18 AM

to katiia:

thats exactly what im saying...were u sad "they" left you or were you sad you were left empty?

to taurus:

the people who leave an imprint on you are the good ones. no reason to be sad when they leave. if they left its their loss. if they honestly left an imprint on you that means they were in your life for a reason and its unfortunate for them for leaving, because they could have learned something too


to eddie:

i love you!


I agree, I am one to say that to my friends, a new direction is always in order. I went through this for 4 mos with a guy i was engaged to. I was sad, but I learn every time more that no sadness is not nessasary. And I remind myself to strive for progress not perfection. I see no reason to go on and on myself.

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Wed 06/10/09 08:56 AM
Sometimes it was never love after all in the relationship anyway. Sometimes we were just stuck and needed the opportunity to get out. flowerforyou *yes decided to pop into the forums today*