I indicated interested in a person but it showed their account as deactivated :(

Then lo and behold this morning it shows that we are mutually matched. Since his account is deactivated I can't send email.

Velly stlange! Any ideas how I can either contact the person or get someone from mingle2 to contact them and let them know their account is misbehaving?

Thanks and have an awesome day!

P.S. it would be great if this forum provided the ability to search - this question may already be answered but I don't have the time to read through all the pages of questions/answers.

chalk it up as that one getting away...morning and welcome to the forums..

I don't think it is a glitch. I have seen people in my Mutual Match that "Deactivate". One minute they are active, the next minute deactivated. I just thought that they were flaky or something.

I would just move on.

there are those that deactivate after ach time the sign in

they do this to avoid getting a bunch of emails

he may or may not be one of those

deactivating is not definite

they can reactivate at anytime


but hey

what do i know

It might have been a fake account. I've had some of those message me and they were deactivated pretty quickly.

thanks for the feedback!

search by his username and email him ....

Way to think out of the box (I know, that phrase seems so cliched), babygirl98270, but even that won't work. When an account is deactivated, there's no way to send an email to it.

PS If he keeps deleting his account every time he signs off, that's not a good sign, he might be doing that to prevent his wife from finding out he's on a dating site