everytime i put my trust in someone it gets betrayed and my heart broken and i dont know if i ever heal from the heartbreak and pain that ive endured so its getting harder and harder for me to trust anyone anymore

U can trust me

...sorry to hear that. Here's hoping you have a nice day.

don't worry u'll end up all bitter and twisted like me.

welcome

well im hoping to mayb find someone to clear my head make me feel alive again

Look, unfortunately trust is inevitable. Dispite how many times people take that trust and crush it you have to remember that there are few people out there worth your trust. So you can't assume everones going to hurt you. You just have to put up wall that you bring down little by little until you know that person could never hurt you. However you have to be smart and look for the signs of an untrustworthy person. Life is full of people who bull****, you just have to learn to not be so naive, and weed out the ones not worth your time.

ive tried i guess im not smart enough

take a long time m8, don't stress urself about it

Only you can do that! Love yourself then the right person will come along! Best wishes!

Try working on being happy on your own first.

I'm a nice guy.....sometimes. No, really I am. Quit laughing. I'm a nice guy. I finish last. Then I wipe off on your moms shirt. It beats wiping off on your cat. See! I'm a nice guy!

no, there is just too many people full of ****. My best advice is to live life, and don't even think about trusting anyone(as far as a relationship) . You'll trust someone naturally when you feel its right. Its never right when you have to question trust. And friends are there to distract from **** like that, hopefully you can trust them right?

what i will say is i wouldn't be young again for anthing, all that angst? no way.

well i have to much ****ed up in my had to be happy right now to be happy but believe me i dont like feeling like crap but i guess i deserve it

Man, you have to get control of your thoughts and emotions, and just press on. Admit your faults, and continue on. You are your own worst enemy...that **** is true.

well thx all of u for ur comforting msgs i feel a little better

Just keep talking on the forums.
You will make some friends,everyone is like family here.

ok thanks for the tip