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well thx all of u for ur comforting msgs i feel a little better Just keep talking on the forums. You will make some friends,everyone is like family here. 
so true.Its great here.  It just takes time to learn to trust again,I'm in the same boat.But I'm learning slowly.Just take your time no rush.
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everytime i put my trust in someone it gets betrayed and my heart broken and i dont know if i ever heal from the heartbreak and pain that ive endured so its getting harder and harder for me to trust anyone anymore Trust and love only yourself.. when you truly do the right person will come around... don't trust others to easily so quickly take your time.. let them earn it maybe.. |
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babygirl98270
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Mon 06/08/09 10:07 AM
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Look baby your only 18 that says alot I know you dont want to hear it but girls your age are not ready to settle down and you should't be either.. You have alot to learn about yourself still(so does everyone) but focus on you- and work on you.. Right now make life all about YOU!!!! Because in a few years you will have more than your hands full with a wife & kids & job & & & & & & ..... Enjoy it while it last... play the field while its still ok.. surround yoursel;f with a good group of friends and the chicks will be all over you.. Dont give up on women in general You will always run across people in your life that will hurt you .. regardless on what type of relationship you have with them or who they are
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Look, unfortunately trust is inevitable. Dispite how many times people take that trust and crush it you have to remember that there are few people out there worth your trust. So you can't assume everones going to hurt you. You just have to put up wall that you bring down little by little until you know that person could never hurt you. However you have to be smart and look for the signs of an untrustworthy person. Life is full of people who bull****, you just have to learn to not be so naive, and weed out the ones not worth your time. Smart man!!! You need to post more! |
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everytime i put my trust in someone it gets betrayed and my heart broken and i dont know if i ever heal from the heartbreak and pain that ive endured so its getting harder and harder for me to trust anyone anymore I say first thing to do is find out why you keep picking the wrong ones for you. It is always a choice we are making that puts us into those situations. Are you picking your partners based on looks for example? Are you picking them based solely on sexual fire because that is not a good way to start a long term relationship. We need to know more than just "they turn us on" to make a relationship a long lasting one. Just a few examples of what we do to ourselves and expect others to fix. |
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