she sead i treted her like a whore , so i went to one and found out i was not being so bad and she was a cold ***** lol ! she thought sex was like a hammer, she used it when she wanted ! lol

Don't you just love being manipulated?!

Anger issues.... He had too many and was making me have them...

No brain food...

Wasn't worth the aggravation.

As with most long-term relationships (over 29yrs) the reasons are numerous. Probably the biggies would be:

We stopped doing the little things as a reminder of how much we cared.

Allowing the after-affects of fights to linger & interfere with the relationship & the physical stuff.

She/we needed consoling. She came from a very abusive background verbal, physical & sexual. She says her father never touched her, but she exhibits all of the classic signs. She knows for a fact that he did assault her sisters.

Money was a HUGE issue. Spending it like we had a money tree to help assuage the above.

She never respected me, which out of all the problems we had, hurts the most.