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Topic: Do you find them, or do they find you?
EZ4Sheezy's photo
Sun 06/07/09 02:44 AM
When you start talking to someone who peaks your interest, is it you who finds them, or do they find you?

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Sun 06/07/09 03:15 AM

When you start talking to someone who peaks your interest, is it you who finds them, or do they find you?


ez you mean like calling em dude?

papersmile's photo
Sun 06/07/09 03:17 AM
if someone interests me, on any level (romantic or platonic) more likely than not, i'll contact them.

i might not be direct about my attraction, if indeed it is an attraction, but i've no problem being the first to connect, or the first to approach.

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Sun 06/07/09 03:23 AM
thanks papersmile

for clarifying

okay here is my answer


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Sun 06/07/09 03:24 AM
Edited by BillySuvol on Sun 06/07/09 03:25 AM
just remember if ignoring her doesnt work......

puppy dogs are a better idea than being yourself


look at the extremes i had to go to (per new profile)

FETTS61's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:11 AM
theres always mutual matchrofl rofl rofl rofl

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 06/07/09 06:40 AM

When you start talking to someone who peaks your interest, is it you who finds them, or do they find you?


Well, on my side at least, I call it "The Mighty Train Wreck"...cause usually, it is all downhill from there.

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Sun 06/07/09 06:41 AM
Both have happened.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 06/07/09 06:44 AM
i haven't been on date in so long i forget sad2

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Sun 06/07/09 06:49 AM
they used to find me. reeled me right in!
discovered they weren't who they initially said they were.
decided i'd do the finding for a while, see how that goes.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 06/07/09 07:11 AM
I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching.

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:27 AM
It's kind of a mutual thing. You can tell if "it's" there or not.

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:34 AM
A little of both.

If he really intrigues me, I have no problem approaching first. :tongue: :wink:

tngxl65's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:35 AM

I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching.


Yep. Me too.

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:35 AM
I let FedEx bring him to me.

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Sun 06/07/09 08:38 AM


I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching.


Yep. Me too.


Why wait around?

babygirl98270's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:43 AM
frustrated If I am interested I will contact them.. They could be to shy.. Or think like Billy

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:44 AM


I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching.


Yep. Me too.


Soooooo......does that mean the fabled primal, caveman desire to hunt a woman, then drag her back to his cave is dead?!?! :cry:

DAMN!!! huh

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 06/07/09 08:44 AM

I let FedEx bring him to me.


When it absolutely, positively has to be there overnight. rofl

tngxl65's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:03 AM



I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching.


Yep. Me too.


Why wait around?


I'm not very outgoing. And I generally like to know someone a little before I show any interest in spending time with them. Much better to meet new people with a group of friends.

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