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Topic: Do you find them, or do they find you?
EZ4Sheezy Joined Tue 01/20/09 Posts: 4694	Sun 06/07/09 02:44 AM
When you start talking to someone who peaks your interest, is it you who finds them, or do they find you?

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Sun 06/07/09 03:15 AM
When you start talking to someone who peaks your interest, is it you who finds them, or do they find you? ez you mean like calling em dude?

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sun 06/07/09 03:17 AM
if someone interests me, on any level (romantic or platonic) more likely than not, i'll contact them. i might not be direct about my attraction, if indeed it is an attraction, but i've no problem being the first to connect, or the first to approach.

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Sun 06/07/09 03:23 AM
thanks papersmile for clarifying okay here is my answer

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Sun 06/07/09 03:24 AM Edited by BillySuvol on Sun 06/07/09 03:25 AM
just remember if ignoring her doesnt work...... puppy dogs are a better idea than being yourself look at the extremes i had to go to (per new profile)

FETTS61 Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 31425	Sun 06/07/09 05:11 AM
theres always mutual match

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sun 06/07/09 06:40 AM
When you start talking to someone who peaks your interest, is it you who finds them, or do they find you? Well, on my side at least, I call it "The Mighty Train Wreck"...cause usually, it is all downhill from there.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 06/07/09 06:41 AM
Both have happened.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 06/07/09 06:44 AM
i haven't been on date in so long i forget

browserb Joined Sun 07/20/08 Posts: 98	Sun 06/07/09 06:49 AM
they used to find me. reeled me right in! discovered they weren't who they initially said they were. decided i'd do the finding for a while, see how that goes.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 06/07/09 07:11 AM
I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sun 06/07/09 08:27 AM
It's kind of a mutual thing. You can tell if "it's" there or not.

KeepingTheFaith Joined Thu 06/21/07 Posts: 879	Sun 06/07/09 08:34 AM
A little of both. If he really intrigues me, I have no problem approaching first.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Sun 06/07/09 08:35 AM
I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching. Yep. Me too.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sun 06/07/09 08:35 AM
I let FedEx bring him to me.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 06/07/09 08:38 AM
I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching. Yep. Me too. Why wait around?

babygirl98270 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 8084	Sun 06/07/09 08:43 AM
If I am interested I will contact them.. They could be to shy.. Or think like Billy

KeepingTheFaith Joined Thu 06/21/07 Posts: 879	Sun 06/07/09 08:44 AM
I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching. Yep. Me too. Soooooo......does that mean the fabled primal, caveman desire to hunt a woman, then drag her back to his cave is dead?!?! DAMN!!!

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sun 06/07/09 08:44 AM
I let FedEx bring him to me. When it absolutely, positively has to be there overnight.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Sun 06/07/09 09:03 AM
I let them approach/ find me. I'd probably date more often if i did the approaching. Yep. Me too. Why wait around? I'm not very outgoing. And I generally like to know someone a little before I show any interest in spending time with them. Much better to meet new people with a group of friends.