mortally wounded and on life support. smote by the same hand that placed 'gentleman' in the next ICU bed. likely 'lady' and 'feminine' were sent to the next door ward by the same perp. investigations continue.

i like to think...we found each other.

That used to work for me, the first one. Gotta agree with the second one. I'm just too damn shy to do the approaching now.

I stab them

You're even too shy to approach people online?

I will allow both to happen, they approach me or I them.

I go in with the intention of being honest with someone; wanting to make a new acquaintanc, if more happens we go from there... communication is the key though.

I don't mind being approached. But, when I see a guy that catches my attention, I have no problem making the first move.

It's happened both ways for me. I just tend to let nature take it's course.

Unfortunately, they've found me the last couple of times.

My dog was a guy magnet for me Man i miss that dog

To an extent, yeah. I don't really go cruising through profiles looking for women to approach cause I don't really think it would do me any good. It's already hard enough to find somebody that strikes my fancy, and even harder to peak the interests of the ones that do. That's why I put up a good profile, in hopes that it would work the other way around. It hasn't.

But I did find somebody here in the forums I like. You might could say I approached her, though it wasn't really my intent. It just happened we talked for a while and I began to like her more and more.

I think when its a true and lasting relationship I think you find each other without even realizing it. For example you give up looking and stumble into one another by what you think might be chance however its a divine meeting. What you choose to do with it is up to both of you. You reap benefits so far greater when your yourself and not actually trying to impress anyone. And when that person does find you and fall for the real you, its magic in the lamest of statements. Things just click! And you find yourselves seeking each other out, constantly.

If they approach me, I usually do not want them
If I appoach them, they usually do not want me

Both!!

They find me. I never initiate anything.

I'm the same way

The majority of the time, they find me. But sometimes I find them.

Yeah, I run into that problem quite a bit.

Careful man. The second part is about accurate, but you're going to scare her (the one to I'm talking to) off with statements like the first part and "lasting relationship" and talk like that if'n when she reads this.

It has happened both ways to me

And i have met some cool people