I met this girl back in Dec, we hit it off and started dating in Jan. She left to her home country which is miles away in which time we'd spend everyday chatting online. She comes back in March and we resume our relationship together. Now she wants to go home again cause she misses her family. I'm feeling positive and hope for her return to continue our relationship, but she seems so negative about coming back, she has become distant at times and doesn't want us to say "I love you" to each other and she doesn't like it when i do/say sweet things to her... When I bring up the subject of being together she gives off negative thoughts. She says she likes me and likes being with me... she'll even tell me "me too" if i ever say I love you. The last few days she has here she prefers not seeing each other to "make it easier" for ourselves when she leaves. I know I haven't messed up I've told her I love her and would marry her so that she could stay in this country... I always tell her how much she means to me and how much I want to be with her, but she usually tells me not to say those things.... >< wtf????

This Lady is not on the same page as you... She likes your companionship but Loves her family more; your first sign was when you say you love her and she replies with "Me too".

Her fear of rejection and hurting your feelings if she tells you the truth about what she really wants out of your relationship is why she has not "reciprocated" with her own gestures of love. What I mean is that She wants to hang out and be pals while having that sense of closeness without all of the ties of a "Loving" relationship. Your pressure may be a little to overwhelming for this Lady.

Maybe it is time for you to back up and re-evaluate your nearly one sided relationship.

She is definitely not on the same page as you. Seems she has made her choice to go back home either because she misses her country, or perhaps even misses someone there.

She's sleeping with someone else.....

Sorry its time to move on......