Topic: How to get rid of a guy
IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 06/05/09 09:46 PM


Say what you just said.

If you can't do it in person (hard to see THAT look, I know), then write a note and hand deliver (if possible) with an "I'm sorry" or in an email (last resort).

Just don't do it by text or let him hang on any longer. The longer he thinks things are ok, the harder it will be.

Pulling the bandage off quickly is always less painfull than trying to ease it off. Take a deep breath and just do it.



I'm against any sort of emailing or phoning about this. Face to face is the only way.


I agree.. After a year, face to face is what he deserves whether it's comfortable for you or not....

Winx's photo
Fri 06/05/09 09:49 PM

Does anybody know how to get rid of a guy with out breaking it off with him verbally? I hate breaking hearts but I am not into this guy I have been dating for over a year. Just not enough chemistry to be with for the rest of my life, it was good while it lasted but now I see that I really don't want to be with him permanently, so how can i dump him without breaking his heart?


Tell him just what you said here.

7z3r05's photo
Fri 06/05/09 09:56 PM
in the words of the late mitch hedberg
'you cant please all the people all the time, and last night all those people were at my show.'

its gonna happen either way. doesnt matter if you mime it to him or send it over smoke signals.

blunt, honest, honorable, and to the point.

littleike's photo
Fri 06/05/09 09:58 PM

There is no way to dump someone without hurting them unless they want it over as well...
hello my friend

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/05/09 09:59 PM
Shout it from around the corner, as he walks into the grocery store.

Thats what I always do.


HEYYYYY! ITS JUST NOT WORKING OUTTT!!!! ITSSS NOT YOU ITS TOTALLY ME!

PS. THRIFTY MAID PEAS ARE ON SALE!!!

BL4766's photo
Fri 06/05/09 10:06 PM
concrete shoes..........


cyanide.........

TNT.......

neckties........

contracts.........

HIGH VOLTAGE.........


DIRTY DEEDS.....DONE DIRT CHEAP!!!!!




WHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...........................devil

Jtevans's photo
Fri 06/05/09 10:11 PM
tell him you want to let him in on a secret and then proceed to tell him you went through "the change" as a teenager and begin speaking in a deep voice then ask him "so when you wanna get married?"


:thumbsup:

geektothetenth's photo
Fri 06/05/09 10:15 PM

hey I know...when you're together just sit on your butt, drink beer, and watch sports...
after awhile he'll have to break up with you or go insane


laugh or you can just talk at him incessantly, act all mad at him and when he asks you what's wrong tell him "if you don't know, I'm not going to tell you", then make him go buy your tampons.

no photo
Fri 06/05/09 10:26 PM
After a year, show respect, and tell him face to face. Its a killer for both of you. But, atleast you will know you did your best in a bad situation.

geektothetenth's photo
Fri 06/05/09 10:35 PM
If you don't want to do it verbally, might I suggest interpretive dance?


no photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:01 PM

Shout it from around the corner, as he walks into the grocery store.

Thats what I always do.


HEYYYYY! ITS JUST NOT WORKING OUTTT!!!! ITSSS NOT YOU ITS TOTALLY ME!

PS. THRIFTY MAID PEAS ARE ON SALE!!!


Pretty damn funny, Earthy!

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:11 PM

If you don't want to do it verbally, might I suggest interpretive dance?




OMG!!! YESSSSS!!!!! ha ha.

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:11 PM


Shout it from around the corner, as he walks into the grocery store.

Thats what I always do.


HEYYYYY! ITS JUST NOT WORKING OUTTT!!!! ITSSS NOT YOU ITS TOTALLY ME!

PS. THRIFTY MAID PEAS ARE ON SALE!!!


Pretty damn funny, Earthy!


:tongue: thanks.

no photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:26 PM
Do you do standup?

Pata's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:31 PM
Tell him you´ve been banging someone on the side. It won´t break his heart. He might knife ya though.,,, so be careful.... lol

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:33 PM
why am I having deja vu?

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:36 PM

why am I having deja vu?


I can't tell you.. If I tell you they'll kill me.. ohwell

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:37 PM


why am I having deja vu?


I can't tell you.. If I tell you they'll kill me.. ohwell


gotcha

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:40 PM
italy...I know many have giving you advice on this before. if you don't feel that way to him, you owe it to him to end it. no matter how much money there is. it isn't fair to him and he will get over it in time

cool_guy_incognito's photo
Fri 06/05/09 11:42 PM

Does anybody know how to get rid of a guy with out breaking it off with him verbally? I hate breaking hearts but I am not into this guy I have been dating for over a year. Just not enough chemistry to be with for the rest of my life, it was good while it lasted but now I see that I really don't want to be with him permanently, so how can i dump him without breaking his heart?


simple. grow a mustache!