Topic: Some men are mean.
Totage's photo
Fri 06/05/09 07:46 PM

i was talking to man a long time ago on here. we stopped talking when he thought that i wouldnt make a good mother to his kids, if we had them. well while we were talking, he even asked me for money for him to come see me. well i forwarded him a silly email. he sent this reply to me. now tell me if it is a little bit harsh. "You are very stupid for sending this email to me. How can a sick jobless ugly fool like you expects money! You sit in front of your pc playing games all in d name of being depress. You should kill yourself cos you are of no use to anyone. Your mother should have used you as menstral waste. You are in no way usefull to anyone or yourself stop posting on dating sites and kill yourself" i would love to hear any opinions on this.



It's obvious that you are not the issue. He obviously has some serious issues that need professional attention. I hope you didn't invest too much in him.

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Fri 06/05/09 08:10 PM

i was talking to man a long time ago on here. we stopped talking when he thought that i wouldnt make a good mother to his kids, if we had them. well while we were talking, he even asked me for money for him to come see me. well i forwarded him a silly email. he sent this reply to me. now tell me if it is a little bit harsh. "You are very stupid for sending this email to me. How can a sick jobless ugly fool like you expects money! You sit in front of your pc playing games all in d name of being depress. You should kill yourself cos you are of no use to anyone. Your mother should have used you as menstral waste. You are in no way usefull to anyone or yourself stop posting on dating sites and kill yourself" i would love to hear any opinions on this.



Same thing I said in your other post...it is the internet. These are not even words, they are text. Dust it off, ignore him, start again. You can't get upset everytime someone rips into you on the internet, honestly, it is not even worth getting upset over.

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Sat 06/06/09 10:56 PM
Darlin, I know it's easier said than done but don't give him another thought. You are better than him and you should charge rent for every moment he lives in your head. I know this from experience. Some people are sick and you deserve so much better. Someone else replied that you should report him as a scammer and they should get rid of him since he asked you for money. Forward the email he sent you to the mods or to one of the owners of the site. That has worked for me in the past. Hang in there. What he did was rank! scammers ust wait to hurt people if they dont get what they want. We dont want him doing this to other women on here or any other site right? Report him and then block him so he cant write you anymore. You are the victim here, but that doesnt make you powerless. Go get um and I wish those good ol boys were here. I have a real ass-hole who could use a good ass-whoopin!

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Sun 06/07/09 06:39 AM
OMG, that thing that the guy said to you was both SO mean and incredibly immature that I find his level of intelligence hilariously funny. he's stuck in the stone age.

i am sorry he caused you offence though, but not all men are like that. then again, some women find it easier to filter out the good men from bad by acknowledging that all men are bastards. unless they are gay men.

I'd respond to him by saying that he is obviously not getting laid at the moment, and would encourage him to keep his sexual frustrations off the road, there's enough driver's like that hogging the streets already. what a nitwit.

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Sun 06/07/09 10:00 AM
Good God! noway You should have reported him!:angry:

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Thu 07/23/09 06:24 PM
Yes some are mean and some are not. Just don't take it personally, we've all encountered some of those, regardless of our careers or looks etc....if someone is miserable and stupid, they'll take it out on anyone who'll take it. As soon as anyone talks to you like that, NEVER have any contact with them again, PERIOD

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Thu 07/23/09 06:27 PM
azz hole..
he so miserable with his pathetic life he wants to spread the misery..
don't take it personally

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Fri 07/24/09 07:16 AM
just a friendly reminder to the guys here-not all girls will assume that "all guys are ********" some will be more then willing to give you a chance, if you're a nice enough man...I suppose. That said, I have learned the hard way that not all girls are angels, some of them can be as bloodthirsty and violent as the man with the highest amount of raging testosterone on the planet. Fortunately, in my experience, they are quite rare.

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 07/24/09 07:23 AM
Yea these dating sites are filled with crazys
No way really to weed them out

No more closeness for me on-line!!! EVA!!!

Friends only

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Fri 07/24/09 07:31 AM
Thats awful. I think he was pizzed off that you didn't send money. I wouldn't take it personal and report him. Lesson learned. smokin

Phuque2's photo
Fri 07/24/09 08:52 AM

Yea these dating sites are filled with crazys
No way really to weed them out

No more closeness for me on-line!!! EVA!!!

Friends only


Yes, some of the crazies say things on these threads that are NOT true and others believe that spewing venem without proof. The worst is when they get on the pitty pot instead of talking and trusting the person that they talked so fondly of days before. Without talking things out ALL of the time life throws a very minnor thing at them, friends is all a person WILL end up with. Talk, in private...TALK.

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Fri 07/24/09 01:55 PM
If that was sent via Mingle, REPORT HIM

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Fri 07/24/09 02:03 PM

i was talking to man a long time ago on here. we stopped talking when he thought that i wouldnt make a good mother to his kids, if we had them. well while we were talking, he even asked me for money for him to come see me. well i forwarded him a silly email. he sent this reply to me. now tell me if it is a little bit harsh. "You are very stupid for sending this email to me. How can a sick jobless ugly fool like you expects money! You sit in front of your pc playing games all in d name of being depress. You should kill yourself cos you are of no use to anyone. Your mother should have used you as menstral waste. You are in no way usefull to anyone or yourself stop posting on dating sites and kill yourself" i would love to hear any opinions on this.

some guys are but not all off the guys are like that.he sounded like a right JOEY= twat..as you say in the states BLANKET PARTY is the best thing 4 him...

Roco's photo
Sat 07/25/09 09:56 PM
you are very lucky that this was so obvious...others aren't so obvious; nonetheless, i know of many guys that do this, (not to the severity though), of being mean and nasty when they don't get what they want...perhaps next time, just say no or something the guy doesn't want to hear, see what the reaction is..

roko

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Sat 07/25/09 10:34 PM
Edited by nvkikigirl on Sat 07/25/09 10:35 PM
wow, sorry this happened, i was on another site last year and some one was like this to me...yucky, dirty, nasty, foul words,...and darn, i never thought to report itfrustrated ...if you can report it, please do.......



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Sat 07/25/09 10:49 PM

i was talking to man a long time ago on here. we stopped talking when he thought that i wouldnt make a good mother to his kids, if we had them. well while we were talking, he even asked me for money for him to come see me. well i forwarded him a silly email. he sent this reply to me. now tell me if it is a little bit harsh. "You are very stupid for sending this email to me. How can a sick jobless ugly fool like you expects money! You sit in front of your pc playing games all in d name of being depress. You should kill yourself cos you are of no use to anyone. Your mother should have used you as menstral waste. You are in no way usefull to anyone or yourself stop posting on dating sites and kill yourself" i would love to hear any opinions on this.



Tell us who this jerk loser is or his handle so we can block him too. We do not need someone like this worthless, pathetic idiot to be talking to...

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Sun 07/26/09 04:20 AM
Well I can only speak for my own self here. I think that individual that typed to you like that was a very sick individual. Like it was suggested maybe they were a scammer or mentally deranged. All I know is if someone was to talk to me like that I would not be corresponding with them in the future. I might even file a complaint with the webmaster of the site I met them on or they communicated with me through.

It is people like that either male or female that make other people feel unsafe. Especially those of us who know that there is no real security on the internet. You may not realize it but anyone on the internet can be located. Everything you say can easily and most likely is stored in a database somewhere. You can probably do a Google search for your name or screen name and find thousands of results.

Be very aware and careful as a person that would speak to another like that could be very dangerous and probably belongs in a restricted environment like a hospital or prison.


Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 07/26/09 04:43 AM
Hey

Who was he

Sounds familier!!

auburngirl's photo
Sun 07/26/09 08:40 AM
Edited by auburngirl on Sun 07/26/09 08:41 AM

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 07/26/09 08:51 AM
I've been getting mail from the craziest of the crazy lately!!

Thank god for "block"

Just have fun out here

You'll meet nice folk
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