has anyone been down this road before?
you are in love with someone but someone from your past
just shows up again out of the blue and wants you back.
you know that they have hurt you and done you horibly wrong
yet you just cant seem to shake the feeling that they maybe difrent this time. now the real submission hold here is that you and this someone have a kid together.

what is a man to do
be with the woman he loves or
out of obligation to the woman he has a child with
try and work it out with her.

both

I really think you should leave them both and come live with me...

I let my ex-husband back into my life after I booted him to the curb, and I really regret it. It just prolonged the agony and made for more broken promises and mind games.

If you are in love with someone else then you should stay with them. There will always be the reason you broke up in the first place, things may have changed but there will always be some resentment. Now, if you were not with someone else it might be worth a shot but I would say see it through and dont let your ex destroy your current relationship. She may only want you because she cant have you and as soon as she can she wont want you anymore.

Ive been hurt like that to just recently on here a few weeks ago and no matter how hard I tried or no matter what I di, it wasnt good enough, I choose to be strong by still sometimes the pain in more than I can bare. I just dont know what to do but with the support of friends, I will not give up. I know that somewhere out there, there is someone just as kind that would be willing to accept me in there life, No regrest Just pure and simple realationship.

If ya can't be
With the one ya love
Then love the one ya with

Love that..

thanks all of you
i am glad i came here
i am going to stick with the woman i love
i think she is the one if you know what im saying.
and i love my child but not enough to be destroyed by the mother.
well thanks again and ill see some of you in the poetry boards.

Best wishes!!!

Good luck and remember don't look back...

Yes, but not an ex, just an friend from a long time ago, we have always been very very close, I have never bonded with anyone as I have with her, but I won't do anything because i don't want to lose that friendship!

Personally, I don't think it's right to be with someone just for the child's sake. Often times it turns out a lot worse. Stay with the one you love. You need to follow your heart.

Good choice.Going back and forth with someone never works.Believe me I know.U forget y u two broke up when they are gone and then when they come back u go o so that is y.

X's are X's for a reason.

I totally agree

Been there done that, won't go back/

wow...don't say...i love my child but not enough...ever, for anything!! stay with the current woman because you love your child and want to share a loving relationship with your child!!

Seriously, the grass always has the appearance of being greener. If you are in a relationship now, do not bail because of the possibilities, you will be breaking a trust that you will never get back.

The fact that you are considering it puts you in a dangerous place morally, be careful...

An es is an ex for a reason. Don't go back. Stay with the woman you love. Exercise your visitation rights with your child and enjoy.